Do nice guys really finish last?

[hotsweet_thang]

Do nice guys really finish last?
Current mood: calm

It's amazing that assholes can get girls. Actually, now that I think of it it's not that AMAZING. They are assholes at heart, but to meet girls they knavish their undying love. IT'S A CHARADE. They act nice, friendly, and they pretend that they listen to you until they get into what their after. Their prey thinks that they are in love with them, however when they realize what assholes their predators really are, they pretend like the asshole is really nice inside. The girl tries to change the asshole into a NICE GUY, but assholes will always be assholes. She gets upset and goes to the NICE GUY to complain about the ASSHOLE, but she claims to love the asshole...now this is where the THEORY begins. She does not want to look like she is easy so she won't dump the asshole right away, instead she will stay with the asshole.

GIRLS can be IDIOTS. They don't realize that the nice guy has been there all along. He never had to pretend to be the good guy to get girls because he is naturally like that. However, girls don't see it for some reason or another. They look at the nice guy as a friend, a trusted companion, to whom they can tell their sad story to about their asshole boyfriend. But the nice guy isn't THAT naive. He was trying to score with the girl he listens to all along. The problem is that since he is a nice guy he keeps listening.

Since girls get attached to things that pay attention to them, they think of the nice guy as a friend. A FRIEND. They don't say, "oh he's hot" or "u want to have his children" about the nice guy, they just want the emotional support. When they get the emotional support from the nice guy, they don't need it from the asshole. The nice guy get the shit end of the stick while the asshole gets all the action...I have been down this path for all of my post pubescent life and it has gotten me NOWHERE...at least not in the women department. Perhaps another reason why girls fall for the asshole is because assholes ignore the girl they are with. The women wonder, "Why isn't he paying attention to me?" so they explore why.

They poke and prod and get closer to the asshole. They start to get easier with each attempt to get closer. The asshole finally says, “I’ve let this beauty dangle long enough, time to boat this bass.” it is then he put on his charade and the girl feels like she has won him...even though all she won was an asshole. Once you have gone down this path as a nice guy or a "listener" you can't turn back. The girl will always go after the assholes because there are always nice guys there to listen. Once you realize that you are a "listener" you can't do anything about it...just pack up and close the shop. There is no way u will get into her pants...ever. There is and never will be a situation where the nice guy will get the girl he has a crush on.

It just doesn't work like that. The girl won't "come to her senses" and realize what an asshole her boyfriend is like in the movies...instead she will just go after another asshole, and unless you stop being a nice guy, she will never go after you. Women complain that there are no nice guys in the world. RIGHT! They are obviously not looking hard enough because there are nice guys everywhere! Girls aren't looking for nice guys...they say they are but they're not. They are looking for the perfect asshole, but there is no such thing as the perfect asshole. All in all, the nice guy gets the shaft. To all the girls out there with boyfriends that don't treat you with respect, that don't listen to you, and that don't care about you I say this; look next to you.

The guy that has been standing next to you the whole time is the guy you have been looking for. He is what u want your asshole to be like. He knows more about you than you know yourself because he has listened to it all."

what do you guys think?

[ErrDiablaso]

Do nice guys really finish last?
Current mood: calm

It's amazing that assholes can get girls. Actually, now that I think of it it's not that AMAZING. They are assholes at heart, but to meet girls they knavish their undying love. IT'S A CHARADE. They act nice, friendly, and they pretend that they listen to you until they get into what their after. Their prey thinks that they are in love with them, however when they realize what assholes their predators really are, they pretend like the asshole is really nice inside. The girl tries to change the asshole into a NICE GUY, but assholes will always be assholes. She gets upset and goes to the NICE GUY to complain about the ASSHOLE, but she claims to love the asshole...now this is where the THEORY begins. She does not want to look like she is easy so she won't dump the asshole right away, instead she will stay with the asshole.

GIRLS can be IDIOTS. They don't realize that the nice guy has been there all along. He never had to pretend to be the good guy to get girls because he is naturally like that. However, girls don't see it for some reason or another. They look at the nice guy as a friend, a trusted companion, to whom they can tell their sad story to about their asshole boyfriend. But the nice guy isn't THAT naive. He was trying to score with the girl he listens to all along. The problem is that since he is a nice guy he keeps listening.

Since girls get attached to things that pay attention to them, they think of the nice guy as a friend. A FRIEND. They don't say, "oh he's hot" or "u want to have his children" about the nice guy, they just want the emotional support. When they get the emotional support from the nice guy, they don't need it from the asshole. The nice guy get the shit end of the stick while the asshole gets all the action...I have been down this path for all of my post pubescent life and it has gotten me NOWHERE...at least not in the women department. Perhaps another reason why girls fall for the asshole is because assholes ignore the girl they are with. The women wonder, "Why isn't he paying attention to me?" so they explore why.

They poke and prod and get closer to the asshole. They start to get easier with each attempt to get closer. The asshole finally says, “I’ve let this beauty dangle long enough, time to boat this bass.” it is then he put on his charade and the girl feels like she has won him...even though all she won was an asshole. Once you have gone down this path as a nice guy or a "listener" you can't turn back. The girl will always go after the assholes because there are always nice guys there to listen. Once you realize that you are a "listener" you can't do anything about it...just pack up and close the shop. There is no way u will get into her pants...ever. There is and never will be a situation where the nice guy will get the girl he has a crush on.

It just doesn't work like that. The girl won't "come to her senses" and realize what an asshole her boyfriend is like in the movies...instead she will just go after another asshole, and unless you stop being a nice guy, she will never go after you. Women complain that there are no nice guys in the world. RIGHT! They are obviously not looking hard enough because there are nice guys everywhere! Girls aren't looking for nice guys...they say they are but they're not. They are looking for the perfect asshole, but there is no such thing as the perfect asshole. All in all, the nice guy gets the shaft. To all the girls out there with boyfriends that don't treat you with respect, that don't listen to you, and that don't care about you I say this; look next to you.

The guy that has been standing next to you the whole time is the guy you have been looking for. He is what u want your asshole to be like. He knows more about you than you know yourself because he has listened to it all."

what do you guys think?

WOW :eek: - Co-Sign it, Publish, Print, WHATEVER the fuck you need to do to turn this into a pamphlet for chicks everywhere, do it... Its simply short of perfect. This describes almost every situation, but youre wrong about the nice guy never getting his crush, its not probable, But it is possible. The guy just needs to know, how to sweep the girl off her feet, He needs to make her realize what it is she has in front of her. Because i will quote you "GIRLS can be IDIOTS". But with this said, im afraid you wont reach too many girls, Im afraid they just never get the big picture. :rolleyes:.

[bangin_dj_Screw]

some hos grow out of that shit when they realize they wanna be with a nice guy for the rest of their lives when they get married...some stay stupid and dont

[DESI BOY]

its all tru man
y do white luv black men
coz they treat em like shit

TREAT EM MEAN KEEP EM KEEN!

[pisces_thoughtz]

Dat Is Awesome And So Tru....haha I Have A Crush On This Guy But He Act Like He Dont Care About Me ...which Makes Me (and A Whole Lotta Other Girls) Like Him More...even Tho The Guys Does Stare At Me But Nah W/e I Said Fuck Him ...i Have A Friend Tho And He Always Listens To Me And Trys To Cheer Me Up ...but I Dont Think He Would Wanna Go Out With Me Cuz Idk Were Just Friends...aahhh Again What Is The World Comin To .... :(

[ErrDiablaso]

Dat Is Awesome And So Tru....haha I Have A Crush On This Guy But He Act Like He Dont Care About Me ...which Makes Me (and A Whole Lotta Other Girls) Like Him More...even Tho The Guys Does Stare At Me But Nah W/e I Said Fuck Him ...i Have A Friend Tho And He Always Listens To Me And Trys To Cheer Me Up ...but I Dont Think He Would Wanna Go Out With Me Cuz Idk Were Just Friends...aahhh Again What Is The World Comin To .... :(

U ever try? This is the 21st century... U could ask him to go to starbucks or somethin... LOL

[hotsweet_thang]

lolz this is the 21st Century huh... Hmm... :confused: lolz...

[ErrDiablaso]

lolz this is the 21st Century huh... Hmm... :confused: lolz...

Last time i checked we was in the year 2005
:rolleyes:

[hotsweet_thang]

yeah i know.. lolz.. but i guess you can call me a prude.. lolz..

[ErrDiablaso]

So you saying you cant ask a guy to go to Starbucks? for coffee?....

[MeZmErIzEmExXx]

So you saying you cant ask a guy to go to Starbucks? for coffee?....

maybe she's a bit old fashioned and wants the guy to realize how great she is and for him to make the first move..if he doesnt well then his loss..

[ErrDiablaso]

Maybe its the other way around. If the girl aint bright enough to cut her losses with her ex ass hole and try and effectively convince herself of what she has in front of her. Then wtf? Girls can be Old fashioned all day. But the truth is that most of you just do really dumb shit, and god knows why. You have your own reasons. But you keep them up and when they guy you really want is next to you, you dont acknowledge it. So who's loss is it really? Is the guy stressin it like that? or are you just suffering inside tryina cover it up? :eek: Yeah... Its like that.

[MeZmErIzEmExXx]

Maybe its the other way around. If the girl aint bright enough to cut her losses with her ex ass hole and try and effectively convince herself of what she has in front of her. Then wtf? Girls can be Old fashioned all day. But the truth is that most of you just do really dumb shit, and god knows why. You have your own reasons. But you keep them up and when they guy you really want is next to you, you dont acknowledge it. So who's loss is it really? Is the guy stressin it like that? or are you just suffering inside tryina cover it up? :eek: Yeah... Its like that.

damn cool down wasnt tryin to fire u up or nethin..n i agree. Girls can do stupid shit like that. Most of them dont know what they want..but they want what they cant have. And if the guy ignores her..she wants him even more. Its stupid, but at one point of their life or another they find out that this kinda shit is stupid and worthless. But by that point the guy that waited for her all those years might be gone. Its how things work..and SOME women are smart enough to change things while they still can!

[pisces_thoughtz]

Actually I Do Ask Guys Out...like My Ex Im The One That Approached Him...n He Liked Me Too So It Was All Good.thats Not The Problem Though...its Just That Hes Different Hes My Friend I Mean I Dont Like Him Or Anything But Hes A Good Listener And I Just Doubt He Likes Me Too So Were Just Good With Being Friends

[c_mixz]

Do nice guys really finish last?
Current mood: calm

It's amazing that assholes can get girls. Actually, now that I think of it it's not that AMAZING. They are assholes at heart, but to meet girls they knavish their undying love. IT'S A CHARADE. They act nice, friendly, and they pretend that they listen to you until they get into what their after. Their prey thinks that they are in love with them, however when they realize what assholes their predators really are, they pretend like the asshole is really nice inside. The girl tries to change the asshole into a NICE GUY, but assholes will always be assholes. She gets upset and goes to the NICE GUY to complain about the ASSHOLE, but she claims to love the asshole...now this is where the THEORY begins. She does not want to look like she is easy so she won't dump the asshole right away, instead she will stay with the asshole.

GIRLS can be IDIOTS. They don't realize that the nice guy has been there all along. He never had to pretend to be the good guy to get girls because he is naturally like that. However, girls don't see it for some reason or another. They look at the nice guy as a friend, a trusted companion, to whom they can tell their sad story to about their asshole boyfriend. But the nice guy isn't THAT naive. He was trying to score with the girl he listens to all along. The problem is that since he is a nice guy he keeps listening.

Since girls get attached to things that pay attention to them, they think of the nice guy as a friend. A FRIEND. They don't say, "oh he's hot" or "u want to have his children" about the nice guy, they just want the emotional support. When they get the emotional support from the nice guy, they don't need it from the asshole. The nice guy get the shit end of the stick while the asshole gets all the action...I have been down this path for all of my post pubescent life and it has gotten me NOWHERE...at least not in the women department. Perhaps another reason why girls fall for the asshole is because assholes ignore the girl they are with. The women wonder, "Why isn't he paying attention to me?" so they explore why.

They poke and prod and get closer to the asshole. They start to get easier with each attempt to get closer. The asshole finally says, “I’ve let this beauty dangle long enough, time to boat this bass.” it is then he put on his charade and the girl feels like she has won him...even though all she won was an asshole. Once you have gone down this path as a nice guy or a "listener" you can't turn back. The girl will always go after the assholes because there are always nice guys there to listen. Once you realize that you are a "listener" you can't do anything about it...just pack up and close the shop. There is no way u will get into her pants...ever. There is and never will be a situation where the nice guy will get the girl he has a crush on.

It just doesn't work like that. The girl won't "come to her senses" and realize what an asshole her boyfriend is like in the movies...instead she will just go after another asshole, and unless you stop being a nice guy, she will never go after you. Women complain that there are no nice guys in the world. RIGHT! They are obviously not looking hard enough because there are nice guys everywhere! Girls aren't looking for nice guys...they say they are but they're not. They are looking for the perfect asshole, but there is no such thing as the perfect asshole. All in all, the nice guy gets the shaft. To all the girls out there with boyfriends that don't treat you with respect, that don't listen to you, and that don't care about you I say this; look next to you.

The guy that has been standing next to you the whole time is the guy you have been looking for. He is what u want your asshole to be like. He knows more about you than you know yourself because he has listened to it all."

what do you guys think?




u know i agree wit everything u said well cuz im a listener but im ass hole to girl i really dont want to be and i go to my friend he my listener and im her listener i just sum stupid shit but im gald sum1 wrote it hot hope the girl can change a bit wit this and go 4 the listener instead of the fuckin asshole

[LaStacia]

On Inferno they do!

[hXcChIcAnO]

well to tell u this truth i'm not really sure, see i'm on of those guys and to b quite honest i haven't been in a relationship yet, i've come close to being in one but the girl i was talkin to felt we should only b friends and she goes off with this other guy. It sucks when that happens, its true guys that r asshole always get the ladies and 4 that reason girls get mistreated or are unhappy and lose faith in finding a good guy or aren't as open into getting serious with anyone again. Thats how guys get a bad rap, and it sucks cause guys like me have 2 suffer 4 it , but look at it this wasy things happen 4 a reason. I'm still waitin 4 that special girl to call my own and one day i'll find her or for my luck she'll find me :D but i do hope that this good guy finishes last :)

[hotsweet_thang]

So you saying you cant ask a guy to go to Starbucks? for coffee?....
of course i can.. if i know him know him.... I'm shy.. lolz

[hotsweet_thang]

maybe she's a bit old fashioned and wants the guy to realize how great she is and for him to make the first move..if he doesnt well then his loss..
exactly.... AMEN!! lolz

[DRED]

So your all telling me that you would never look to your friend as a potential boyfriend. You would just keep on going after these men that only want to get those jeans. If that's the case, then you guys could really be missing out someone real special. :D

[_da1udeny_]

AN asshole worte this to try and get in ur pants duhhhhhhhhhhhh cant u tell

[NOTKNOWN]

i used to be a nice guy..That ended when i lost my heart for these hoes
.As far as white girls, u can just pipe em out good
make them buy u shit, wakem up at 4:00 in the mornin to let you pipe and have a place to stay for a week,And smackem around when they act up.Dont sweat a chick,let her sweat you.Fuck being a nice guy!Be
an asshole and never wear ya heart on ya sleeve. :)

[PortCityNygga]

Do nice guys really finish last?
Current mood: calm

It's amazing that assholes can get girls. Actually, now that I think of it it's not that AMAZING. They are assholes at heart, but to meet girls they knavish their undying love. IT'S A CHARADE. They act nice, friendly, and they pretend that they listen to you until they get into what their after. Their prey thinks that they are in love with them, however when they realize what assholes their predators really are, they pretend like the asshole is really nice inside. The girl tries to change the asshole into a NICE GUY, but assholes will always be assholes. She gets upset and goes to the NICE GUY to complain about the ASSHOLE, but she claims to love the asshole...now this is where the THEORY begins. She does not want to look like she is easy so she won't dump the asshole right away, instead she will stay with the asshole.

GIRLS can be IDIOTS. They don't realize that the nice guy has been there all along. He never had to pretend to be the good guy to get girls because he is naturally like that. However, girls don't see it for some reason or another. They look at the nice guy as a friend, a trusted companion, to whom they can tell their sad story to about their asshole boyfriend. But the nice guy isn't THAT naive. He was trying to score with the girl he listens to all along. The problem is that since he is a nice guy he keeps listening.

Since girls get attached to things that pay attention to them, they think of the nice guy as a friend. A FRIEND. They don't say, "oh he's hot" or "u want to have his children" about the nice guy, they just want the emotional support. When they get the emotional support from the nice guy, they don't need it from the asshole. The nice guy get the shit end of the stick while the asshole gets all the action...I have been down this path for all of my post pubescent life and it has gotten me NOWHERE...at least not in the women department. Perhaps another reason why girls fall for the asshole is because assholes ignore the girl they are with. The women wonder, "Why isn't he paying attention to me?" so they explore why.

They poke and prod and get closer to the asshole. They start to get easier with each attempt to get closer. The asshole finally says, “I’ve let this beauty dangle long enough, time to boat this bass.” it is then he put on his charade and the girl feels like she has won him...even though all she won was an asshole. Once you have gone down this path as a nice guy or a "listener" you can't turn back. The girl will always go after the assholes because there are always nice guys there to listen. Once you realize that you are a "listener" you can't do anything about it...just pack up and close the shop. There is no way u will get into her pants...ever. There is and never will be a situation where the nice guy will get the girl he has a crush on.

It just doesn't work like that. The girl won't "come to her senses" and realize what an asshole her boyfriend is like in the movies...instead she will just go after another asshole, and unless you stop being a nice guy, she will never go after you. Women complain that there are no nice guys in the world. RIGHT! They are obviously not looking hard enough because there are nice guys everywhere! Girls aren't looking for nice guys...they say they are but they're not. They are looking for the perfect asshole, but there is no such thing as the perfect asshole. All in all, the nice guy gets the shaft. To all the girls out there with boyfriends that don't treat you with respect, that don't listen to you, and that don't care about you I say this; look next to you.

The guy that has been standing next to you the whole time is the guy you have been looking for. He is what u want your asshole to be like. He knows more about you than you know yourself because he has listened to it all."

what do you guys think?


Well actually they dont cause some shit happen to me today dat made me mad but it was nice guy vs me who is in between i been talkin to this girl for 2 months and he been talking to her for 2 days but it really aint ish to be mad about its her fault im mad though but nice guys finish first sometimes

[DyMe*PiEzE*cHuLa]

No........

[edog]

im an asshole and girls love me. if you're a nice guy you will finish last. step up your game weak ass! that goes to all the nice gups out there. if you're game isnt tight then step it up or else guys like me will be laughing all the way to the bedroom..hehe.

[LaLokaDelGrupo]

Do nice guys really finish last?
Current mood: calm

It's amazing that assholes can get girls. Actually, now that I think of it it's not that AMAZING. They are assholes at heart, but to meet girls they knavish their undying love. IT'S A CHARADE. They act nice, friendly, and they pretend that they listen to you until they get into what their after. Their prey thinks that they are in love with them, however when they realize what assholes their predators really are, they pretend like the asshole is really nice inside. The girl tries to change the asshole into a NICE GUY, but assholes will always be assholes. She gets upset and goes to the NICE GUY to complain about the ASSHOLE, but she claims to love the asshole...now this is where the THEORY begins. She does not want to look like she is easy so she won't dump the asshole right away, instead she will stay with the asshole.

GIRLS can be IDIOTS. They don't realize that the nice guy has been there all along. He never had to pretend to be the good guy to get girls because he is naturally like that. However, girls don't see it for some reason or another. They look at the nice guy as a friend, a trusted companion, to whom they can tell their sad story to about their asshole boyfriend. But the nice guy isn't THAT naive. He was trying to score with the girl he listens to all along. The problem is that since he is a nice guy he keeps listening.

Since girls get attached to things that pay attention to them, they think of the nice guy as a friend. A FRIEND. They don't say, "oh he's hot" or "u want to have his children" about the nice guy, they just want the emotional support. When they get the emotional support from the nice guy, they don't need it from the asshole. The nice guy get the shit end of the stick while the asshole gets all the action...I have been down this path for all of my post pubescent life and it has gotten me NOWHERE...at least not in the women department. Perhaps another reason why girls fall for the asshole is because assholes ignore the girl they are with. The women wonder, "Why isn't he paying attention to me?" so they explore why.

They poke and prod and get closer to the asshole. They start to get easier with each attempt to get closer. The asshole finally says, “I’ve let this beauty dangle long enough, time to boat this bass.” it is then he put on his charade and the girl feels like she has won him...even though all she won was an asshole. Once you have gone down this path as a nice guy or a "listener" you can't turn back. The girl will always go after the assholes because there are always nice guys there to listen. Once you realize that you are a "listener" you can't do anything about it...just pack up and close the shop. There is no way u will get into her pants...ever. There is and never will be a situation where the nice guy will get the girl he has a crush on.

It just doesn't work like that. The girl won't "come to her senses" and realize what an asshole her boyfriend is like in the movies...instead she will just go after another asshole, and unless you stop being a nice guy, she will never go after you. Women complain that there are no nice guys in the world. RIGHT! They are obviously not looking hard enough because there are nice guys everywhere! Girls aren't looking for nice guys...they say they are but they're not. They are looking for the perfect asshole, but there is no such thing as the perfect asshole. All in all, the nice guy gets the shaft. To all the girls out there with boyfriends that don't treat you with respect, that don't listen to you, and that don't care about you I say this; look next to you.

The guy that has been standing next to you the whole time is the guy you have been looking for. He is what u want your asshole to be like. He knows more about you than you know yourself because he has listened to it all."

what do you guys think?

This is very true, but i think its when a nice guy comes along and a girls so used to someone treating them wrong they get adapted to that, and think that someone who comes along who are exactly what they are looking for, is to good to be true. And its said "when something looks to good to be true, it ususally is" so a woman is tempted to look for a flaw, any flaw in that person. I don't know why we as women do it, but we do.

[colombiana4evah]

that story iz hella true.... bad boyz r attractive cauz u when your them itz.... umm "exciting" in my opinion im NOT saying for everyone but... i think that we like to have all tha drama and shyt it hurtz sometimez but it makez life interestin.... az far as the nice guy thing.... some of them seem too desperate and shyt...the kind of thing you dont want until your ready for after you settle down. I donno but thatz my 2 cents.

[LatinaSweetLipz]

Nyce guys finish last during adolescence. Especially in thys country where a gyrl fantasizes about being with the "Thug" or the "Gangsta". But after a certain point, no one wants that. Gyrls are looking for someone with a future who they can see themselves settling down with, well, at least the smart ones... So yea, nyce guys do finish last, but not for long. After the age of maybe 18, all the gyrls are gonna want the computer geeks and all the guys who got their lives straight when they had a chance.

[cadadia]

Do nice guys really finish last?
Current mood: calm

It's amazing that assholes can get girls. Actually, now that I think of it it's not that AMAZING. They are assholes at heart, but to meet girls they knavish their undying love. IT'S A CHARADE. They act nice, friendly, and they pretend that they listen to you until they get into what their after. Their prey thinks that they are in love with them, however when they realize what assholes their predators really are, they pretend like the asshole is really nice inside. The girl tries to change the asshole into a NICE GUY, but assholes will always be assholes. She gets upset and goes to the NICE GUY to complain about the ASSHOLE, but she claims to love the asshole...now this is where the THEORY begins. She does not want to look like she is easy so she won't dump the asshole right away, instead she will stay with the asshole.

GIRLS can be IDIOTS. They don't realize that the nice guy has been there all along. He never had to pretend to be the good guy to get girls because he is naturally like that. However, girls don't see it for some reason or another. They look at the nice guy as a friend, a trusted companion, to whom they can tell their sad story to about their asshole boyfriend. But the nice guy isn't THAT naive. He was trying to score with the girl he listens to all along. The problem is that since he is a nice guy he keeps listening.

Since girls get attached to things that pay attention to them, they think of the nice guy as a friend. A FRIEND. They don't say, "oh he's hot" or "u want to have his children" about the nice guy, they just want the emotional support. When they get the emotional support from the nice guy, they don't need it from the asshole. The nice guy get the shit end of the stick while the asshole gets all the action...I have been down this path for all of my post pubescent life and it has gotten me NOWHERE...at least not in the women department. Perhaps another reason why girls fall for the asshole is because assholes ignore the girl they are with. The women wonder, "Why isn't he paying attention to me?" so they explore why.

They poke and prod and get closer to the asshole. They start to get easier with each attempt to get closer. The asshole finally says, “I’ve let this beauty dangle long enough, time to boat this bass.” it is then he put on his charade and the girl feels like she has won him...even though all she won was an asshole. Once you have gone down this path as a nice guy or a "listener" you can't turn back. The girl will always go after the assholes because there are always nice guys there to listen. Once you realize that you are a "listener" you can't do anything about it...just pack up and close the shop. There is no way u will get into her pants...ever. There is and never will be a situation where the nice guy will get the girl he has a crush on.

It just doesn't work like that. The girl won't "come to her senses" and realize what an asshole her boyfriend is like in the movies...instead she will just go after another asshole, and unless you stop being a nice guy, she will never go after you. Women complain that there are no nice guys in the world. RIGHT! They are obviously not looking hard enough because there are nice guys everywhere! Girls aren't looking for nice guys...they say they are but they're not. They are looking for the perfect asshole, but there is no such thing as the perfect asshole. All in all, the nice guy gets the shaft. To all the girls out there with boyfriends that don't treat you with respect, that don't listen to you, and that don't care about you I say this; look next to you.

The guy that has been standing next to you the whole time is the guy you have been looking for. He is what u want your asshole to be like. He knows more about you than you know yourself because he has listened to it all."

what do you guys think?

the story of the nice guy is like from mike jones:
"Back then, they didn't want me, now i'm hot they all up on me"

personally i like all the drama that girls want u to listen to, but maybe it's cuz i'm in high school still

[<3 butterfly <3]

aaahhhh thats too much to read..

[modestpapi]

i started a listener, became an asshole because she wasnt hearin me, now i've decided ill only take time out an listen if she has somthin to sayin and listenin to... alot of the times guys go for vanity when theres a guy that likes u and ur missin out... but the females goin for assholes is patheticly true also...w/e though.. we all die alone so live with the company u want

[ICanBeYourDream]

i'm a nice guy :D.....well i can't remember the last time i finished last :D :rolleyes: :D

[TaurusThoughtz]

Do nice guys really finish last?
Current mood: calm

It's amazing that assholes can get girls. Actually, now that I think of it it's not that AMAZING. They are assholes at heart, but to meet girls they knavish their undying love. IT'S A CHARADE. They act nice, friendly, and they pretend that they listen to you until they get into what their after. Their prey thinks that they are in love with them, however when they realize what assholes their predators really are, they pretend like the asshole is really nice inside. The girl tries to change the asshole into a NICE GUY, but assholes will always be assholes. She gets upset and goes to the NICE GUY to complain about the ASSHOLE, but she claims to love the asshole...now this is where the THEORY begins. She does not want to look like she is easy so she won't dump the asshole right away, instead she will stay with the asshole.

GIRLS can be IDIOTS. They don't realize that the nice guy has been there all along. He never had to pretend to be the good guy to get girls because he is naturally like that. However, girls don't see it for some reason or another. They look at the nice guy as a friend, a trusted companion, to whom they can tell their sad story to about their asshole boyfriend. But the nice guy isn't THAT naive. He was trying to score with the girl he listens to all along. The problem is that since he is a nice guy he keeps listening.

Since girls get attached to things that pay attention to them, they think of the nice guy as a friend. A FRIEND. They don't say, "oh he's hot" or "u want to have his children" about the nice guy, they just want the emotional support. When they get the emotional support from the nice guy, they don't need it from the asshole. The nice guy get the shit end of the stick while the asshole gets all the action...I have been down this path for all of my post pubescent life and it has gotten me NOWHERE...at least not in the women department. Perhaps another reason why girls fall for the asshole is because assholes ignore the girl they are with. The women wonder, "Why isn't he paying attention to me?" so they explore why.

They poke and prod and get closer to the asshole. They start to get easier with each attempt to get closer. The asshole finally says, “I’ve let this beauty dangle long enough, time to boat this bass.” it is then he put on his charade and the girl feels like she has won him...even though all she won was an asshole. Once you have gone down this path as a nice guy or a "listener" you can't turn back. The girl will always go after the assholes because there are always nice guys there to listen. Once you realize that you are a "listener" you can't do anything about it...just pack up and close the shop. There is no way u will get into her pants...ever. There is and never will be a situation where the nice guy will get the girl he has a crush on.

It just doesn't work like that. The girl won't "come to her senses" and realize what an asshole her boyfriend is like in the movies...instead she will just go after another asshole, and unless you stop being a nice guy, she will never go after you. Women complain that there are no nice guys in the world. RIGHT! They are obviously not looking hard enough because there are nice guys everywhere! Girls aren't looking for nice guys...they say they are but they're not. They are looking for the perfect asshole, but there is no such thing as the perfect asshole. All in all, the nice guy gets the shaft. To all the girls out there with boyfriends that don't treat you with respect, that don't listen to you, and that don't care about you I say this; look next to you.

The guy that has been standing next to you the whole time is the guy you have been looking for. He is what u want your asshole to be like. He knows more about you than you know yourself because he has listened to it all."

what do you guys think?
SO TRUE....SO TRUE....

[TX COLOMBIANO]

Of course they finish last.


Stereotypical nice guy = overly sweet and submissive pussy who thinks showing his soft side all the time will get him pussy.


I have my asshole moments with girls. And I can't say I don't enjoy it.

They force it upon themselves with their contradictive rational and fucked standards.


Bottomline, don't let a girl get the advantage unless you want to get treated like a doormat.

[Da_Last_Word]

I used to be a nice guy but now girls are just my conquests. Being the nice guy sucks, I may be an asshole but I'm not a loser cuz I'm still smart and will go far in life, I just ain't bringin no hoes along for the ride. I just have no intentions of actually loving girls. Girls don't know what they want. That's why the black community has so many baby mama's. They choose these macho jerks and ignore the good black guys and then when the good black guy dates a white girl or whatever they get mad as if the nice guy was supposed to wait until they wake up and realize who they need to be with. Look at Destiny's Child's 'I need a soldier'. 'If ya status ain't hood blah blah blah'. Nice guys are pretty much long term, thugs are pretty much just for the moment and will eventually abandon the girl after she's pregnant. But I'm like a cross in between the two. Even though I never want to get a girl pregnant if I did get a girl pregnant I would step up to the plate.

I'm real, I don't lead girls on. I'm like a pack of cigarettes, you're pre-warned of what's gonna happen. I ain't wifin you. Most girls that I meet are fake and therefore just an instrument to assist my bodily functions. True story.

[ben chod mafia]

i personally think it depends on the girl. not all girls are that stupid. Come on, give girls some credit.

Here in TX, i have noticed that girls like guys who are confident, are going somewhere, has good head on their shoulder, and unique personalities. Its the truth !! I am talking mostly of college aged pips.

this machismo about "playing" and "pimpin" is something guys uses to look more manly and testoterone driven attitude. not all girls fall for this crap.

In the end and long term, girls will leave the losers and pimps behind to be with a nice guy. Is that mean they finish last? I guess it depends on definition of FINISH.

you have to pick your battles and win (my strategy for triathlons) !!

p.s.

all you nice guys, dont give up !! There are too many fish in the sea of 1000s of variety. I am sure some of girls here can back me up :)
============

any guy could be submissive if they are desperate enough. just because you open doors and treat her right doesnt mean you are desperate.

maybe we all are not dating the same types of girls

[Lil Jose 817]

im tired of being the nice guy :(


Who wants to help me become an asshole? :eek:

[thickdcksith]

To Add To This Fuck The Hoes Who Dont Want The Nice Guys Cuz They Are The Ones Who Become Single Parents Who Cant Finish School And By The Time They Get Their Ged They Are 21 With 2 Kids And Cant Get A Man Cause Of Their Baggage. But You Know Who Takes Them Anyway???








The Nice Guy!!!!!!!

[NOTKNOWN]

To Add To This Fuck The Hoes Who Dont Want The Nice Guys Cuz They Are The Ones Who Become Single Parents Who Cant Finish School And By The Time They Get Their Ged They Are 21 With 2 Kids And Cant Get A Man Cause Of Their Baggage. But You Know Who Takes Them Anyway???








The Nice Guy!!!!!!!

Thas a goddamn shame too.
Fuck that. It aint my kid bitch so leave that nigga with the babysitter.HOE

[hXcChIcAnO]

I'm a nice guy all the way although many may think i'm a fool 4 being so :cool:

[its_ok_hes_white]

try being the nice guy and white..... no win situation.. then you find that one girl whos too good to be true... your feelin her, and shes feelin u....and shes feelin two of ur best friends, really feeling them, u get played and your perspective changes a bit.....

[Johnny Chingas]

Nice guys keep me ahead of the game. I say there should be more nice guys in the world. And gay guys. The more the merrier.

[Crucial_Mami17]

no NICE GIRLS do

N I GOT THIS 2 PROVE IT

ITS LIKE THAT HUH! Body: MAN U PLAYIN A BITCH GAME AINT U... Y U ERASE ME OFF YO FREND LIST ..Y U ERASE MY COMMENT... .. YEA FUCK U RITE BACK BITCH! DONT TRY TO TAKE ADVANTAGE OF ME OR THINK IM STUPID.. I AINT NO HO NIGGA.. N DONT TRY TO CRY BACK TO ME LIKE A LIL HO.. DO WHACHU DO N MOVE ON. GO PLAY YO HO GAMEZ WIT SUM 1 ELSE.

OH YEA AND KING KILLA ....
DICIPLE KILLA.. FUKKIN SALTY DONUTZ!

[dominicanfighter]

Do nice guys really finish last?
Current mood: calm

It's amazing that assholes can get girls. Actually, now that I think of it it's not that AMAZING. They are assholes at heart, but to meet girls they knavish their undying love. IT'S A CHARADE. They act nice, friendly, and they pretend that they listen to you until they get into what their after. Their prey thinks that they are in love with them, however when they realize what assholes their predators really are, they pretend like the asshole is really nice inside. The girl tries to change the asshole into a NICE GUY, but assholes will always be assholes. She gets upset and goes to the NICE GUY to complain about the ASSHOLE, but she claims to love the asshole...now this is where the THEORY begins. She does not want to look like she is easy so she won't dump the asshole right away, instead she will stay with the asshole.

GIRLS can be IDIOTS. They don't realize that the nice guy has been there all along. He never had to pretend to be the good guy to get girls because he is naturally like that. However, girls don't see it for some reason or another. They look at the nice guy as a friend, a trusted companion, to whom they can tell their sad story to about their asshole boyfriend. But the nice guy isn't THAT naive. He was trying to score with the girl he listens to all along. The problem is that since he is a nice guy he keeps listening.

Since girls get attached to things that pay attention to them, they think of the nice guy as a friend. A FRIEND. They don't say, "oh he's hot" or "u want to have his children" about the nice guy, they just want the emotional support. When they get the emotional support from the nice guy, they don't need it from the asshole. The nice guy get the shit end of the stick while the asshole gets all the action...I have been down this path for all of my post pubescent life and it has gotten me NOWHERE...at least not in the women department. Perhaps another reason why girls fall for the asshole is because assholes ignore the girl they are with. The women wonder, "Why isn't he paying attention to me?" so they explore why.

They poke and prod and get closer to the asshole. They start to get easier with each attempt to get closer. The asshole finally says, “I’ve let this beauty dangle long enough, time to boat this bass.” it is then he put on his charade and the girl feels like she has won him...even though all she won was an asshole. Once you have gone down this path as a nice guy or a "listener" you can't turn back. The girl will always go after the assholes because there are always nice guys there to listen. Once you realize that you are a "listener" you can't do anything about it...just pack up and close the shop. There is no way u will get into her pants...ever. There is and never will be a situation where the nice guy will get the girl he has a crush on.

It just doesn't work like that. The girl won't "come to her senses" and realize what an asshole her boyfriend is like in the movies...instead she will just go after another asshole, and unless you stop being a nice guy, she will never go after you. Women complain that there are no nice guys in the world. RIGHT! They are obviously not looking hard enough because there are nice guys everywhere! Girls aren't looking for nice guys...they say they are but they're not. They are looking for the perfect asshole, but there is no such thing as the perfect asshole. All in all, the nice guy gets the shaft. To all the girls out there with boyfriends that don't treat you with respect, that don't listen to you, and that don't care about you I say this; look next to you.

The guy that has been standing next to you the whole time is the guy you have been looking for. He is what u want your asshole to be like. He knows more about you than you know yourself because he has listened to it all."

what do you guys think?yea dats true,im always been ddat nice guy,ill listen to da gurls problems but wont step up :( its nice helpin dem,they regret dat bay boy when there in their 30s and dont got a man."where was the guy who cared 2 much?"theyll say the ladies.dats life 4 u,get it or be kicked 2 da curb

[dominicanfighter]

now guys need da mix,da bad boy and the nice guy,dat way itll be equality in the relationship.nearly all bad boys will dump u later in life ladies and most nice guys at da moment are too plain,boring or unattractive to even consider more then a 'friend'its true

[AgainstAllOddz]

Do nice guys really do finish last? My opinion, not really, because I feel a girl loves feeling good and loves someone that would make her happy. A female does not like a male that treats them bad or like crap. But if it is an ugly nice guy then I think there is a difference.

[springbranchking]

sure is true, i used to be a nice guy, i got girls though, but since i was a nice guy i used to get stepped on..............fuck that i learned my lesson asshole is the way to go..........so you ladies turned me that way ;) fuck it i get more action than i used to

[tafirenyikav]

Do nice guys really finish last?
Current mood: calm

It's amazing that assholes can get girls. Actually, now that I think of it it's not that AMAZING. They are assholes at heart, but to meet girls they knavish their undying love. IT'S A CHARADE. They act nice, friendly, and they pretend that they listen to you until they get into what their after. Their prey thinks that they are in love with them, however when they realize what assholes their predators really are, they pretend like the asshole is really nice inside. The girl tries to change the asshole into a NICE GUY, but assholes will always be assholes. She gets upset and goes to the NICE GUY to complain about the ASSHOLE, but she claims to love the asshole...now this is where the THEORY begins. She does not want to look like she is easy so she won't dump the asshole right away, instead she will stay with the asshole.

GIRLS can be IDIOTS. They don't realize that the nice guy has been there all along. He never had to pretend to be the good guy to get girls because he is naturally like that. However, girls don't see it for some reason or another. They look at the nice guy as a friend, a trusted companion, to whom they can tell their sad story to about their asshole boyfriend. But the nice guy isn't THAT naive. He was trying to score with the girl he listens to all along. The problem is that since he is a nice guy he keeps listening.

Since girls get attached to things that pay attention to them, they think of the nice guy as a friend. A FRIEND. They don't say, "oh he's hot" or "u want to have his children" about the nice guy, they just want the emotional support. When they get the emotional support from the nice guy, they don't need it from the asshole. The nice guy get the shit end of the stick while the asshole gets all the action...I have been down this path for all of my post pubescent life and it has gotten me NOWHERE...at least not in the women department. Perhaps another reason why girls fall for the asshole is because assholes ignore the girl they are with. The women wonder, "Why isn't he paying attention to me?" so they explore why.

They poke and prod and get closer to the asshole. They start to get easier with each attempt to get closer. The asshole finally says, “I’ve let this beauty dangle long enough, time to boat this bass.” it is then he put on his charade and the girl feels like she has won him...even though all she won was an asshole. Once you have gone down this path as a nice guy or a "listener" you can't turn back. The girl will always go after the assholes because there are always nice guys there to listen. Once you realize that you are a "listener" you can't do anything about it...just pack up and close the shop. There is no way u will get into her pants...ever. There is and never will be a situation where the nice guy will get the girl he has a crush on.

It just doesn't work like that. The girl won't "come to her senses" and realize what an asshole her boyfriend is like in the movies...instead she will just go after another asshole, and unless you stop being a nice guy, she will never go after you. Women complain that there are no nice guys in the world. RIGHT! They are obviously not looking hard enough because there are nice guys everywhere! Girls aren't looking for nice guys...they say they are but they're not. They are looking for the perfect asshole, but there is no such thing as the perfect asshole. All in all, the nice guy gets the shaft. To all the girls out there with boyfriends that don't treat you with respect, that don't listen to you, and that don't care about you I say this; look next to you.

The guy that has been standing next to you the whole time is the guy you have been looking for. He is what u want your asshole to be like. He knows more about you than you know yourself because he has listened to it all."

what do you guys think?

girl u know ur staff..I agree with u...thats so very powerful

[SIXPAK GQ]

This is very true, but i think its when a nice guy comes along and a girls so used to someone treating them wrong they get adapted to that, and think that someone who comes along who are exactly what they are looking for, is to good to be true. And its said "when something looks to good to be true, it ususally is" so a woman is tempted to look for a flaw, any flaw in that person. I don't know why we as women do it, but we do.


then women should quit complaining about findind the right man
whose fault is it now?

[SIXPAK GQ]

Nyce guys finish last during adolescence. Especially in thys country where a gyrl fantasizes about being with the "Thug" or the "Gangsta". But after a certain point, no one wants that. Gyrls are looking for someone with a future who they can see themselves settling down with, well, at least the smart ones... So yea, nyce guys do finish last, but not for long. After the age of maybe 18, all the gyrls are gonna want the computer geeks and all the guys who got their lives straight when they had a chance.



thugs/gansgster get nowhere in life, sure they will attract the ladies who are into thugs/gangsters but they usually end up working at some fast food place probably with a kid or two just fighting to survive....while the nice guys who got shot down earlier have a future when they grow up; usually end up graduating college and have a nice job and make great money....i don't know any women who is not attracted to a successful man.

[puertoricangio1]

i am a nice guy..........always and i see how girls are treated and i always lived doin the opposite......my mom was mistreated, and my sis....i dont wanna do that...ima nice guy no matter what......i got my life in check....goin to school...gettin the grades...i have directing, moviemaking, and acting skills, which im moving forward with (ima be an actor).....my one goal/goals.... are to be the greatest latino actors and idle other latino-aspiring actors to come up and i wanna maybe even be the first latino president...the second ronald reagan;actor turned president....i know what i want i got goals and i respect....ima nice guy

~Gio~~

[its_ok_hes_white]

i am a nice guy..........always and i see how girls are treated and i always lived doin the opposite......my mom was mistreated, and my sis....i dont wanna do that...ima nice guy no matter what......i got my life in check....goin to school...gettin the grades...i have directing, moviemaking, and acting skills, which im moving forward with (ima be an actor).....my one goal/goals.... are to be the greatest latino actors and idle other latino-aspiring actors to come up and i wanna maybe even be the first latino president...the second ronald reagan;actor turned president....i know what i want i got goals and i respect....ima nice guy

~Gio~~
tight shit man.. but I'm pretty sure ur about as likely to get elected Pres as Jesse Jackson... but I'd like to see it (u not him) lol

in the words of Dave Chappelle: "Damn, Bush is fucking up" gas at $3 a gallon....

[Reaper]

tight shit man.. but I'm pretty sure ur about as likely to get elected Pres as Jesse Jackson... but I'd like to see it (u not him) lol

in the words of Dave Chappelle: "Damn, Bush is fucking up" gas at $3 a gallon....

Like a fucking kracker would know anything about Jesse Jackson. The nazi party is dat way>>>>>>>goddamn worthless albino bitch.

[azn_suga]

Like a fucking kracker would know anything about Jesse Jackson. The nazi party is dat way>>>>>>>goddamn worthless albino bitch.

y r u so racist ? :confused:

[hotdominican1]

One of the attractive qualities of an Alpha Man is his willingness to jump in and
take life by the balls, not playing it “safe.” A woman can sense if a man is the kind who
will be fun to hang around because he’s either out there pushing the envelope, or he’s
working in the mailroom licking envelopes. Adventure and danger are no strangers to
the Alpha Man.
As you are aware, the “Bad Boy” myth – that women sleep with the dangerous
guys out there – has some elements of truth to it. Not every woman is attracted to this
type of man, but every woman is attracted to certain parts of the Bad Boy personality.
Let’s review these traits:
- Adventurous: Whether it’s drinking until 4:00 am, bungee-jumping off of
bridges, snowboarding – whatever, the Bad Boy is out doing risky things.
He’s not driving a station wagon under the speed limit; he’s driving a
motorcycle at high speeds. He doesn’t play it safe, and he needs new
experiences every day, or life becomes boring.
- Opinionated: Even if his opinions are a bit hard to understand and
sometimes immature, the Bad Boy has no problem telling you what he
thinks. Some people call this a “strong personality,” but he’s just able to
tell you exactly what’s on his mind. He’s not afraid to disagree with
anyone, either.
Self-interested: The Bad Boy has a great deal of self-interest, which
makes him challenging and interesting to other women. He has his own
hobbies and passions, and these translate into a fulfilled existence that he
can then pass along to other people. (Women sense that this also means
he’ll have the skills they want in bed, too.)
- Joker: His sense of humor is almost always well developed, and this
draws the ladies in. He knows how to make women laugh and enjoy
themselves. He’s got a sharp wit, and a keen sense of what’s funny. He
doesn’t take things too seriously.

by carlos xuma

[its_ok_hes_white]

One of the attractive qualities of an Alpha Man is his willingness to jump in and
take life by the balls, not playing it “safe.” A woman can sense if a man is the kind who
will be fun to hang around because he’s either out there pushing the envelope, or he’s
working in the mailroom licking envelopes. Adventure and danger are no strangers to
the Alpha Man.
As you are aware, the “Bad Boy” myth – that women sleep with the dangerous
guys out there – has some elements of truth to it. Not every woman is attracted to this
type of man, but every woman is attracted to certain parts of the Bad Boy personality.
Let’s review these traits:
- Adventurous: Whether it’s drinking until 4:00 am, bungee-jumping off of
bridges, snowboarding – whatever, the Bad Boy is out doing risky things.
He’s not driving a station wagon under the speed limit; he’s driving a
motorcycle at high speeds. He doesn’t play it safe, and he needs new
experiences every day, or life becomes boring.
- Opinionated: Even if his opinions are a bit hard to understand and
sometimes immature, the Bad Boy has no problem telling you what he
thinks. Some people call this a “strong personality,” but he’s just able to
tell you exactly what’s on his mind. He’s not afraid to disagree with
anyone, either.
Self-interested: The Bad Boy has a great deal of self-interest, which
makes him challenging and interesting to other women. He has his own
hobbies and passions, and these translate into a fulfilled existence that he
can then pass along to other people. (Women sense that this also means
he’ll have the skills they want in bed, too.)
- Joker: His sense of humor is almost always well developed, and this
draws the ladies in. He knows how to make women laugh and enjoy
themselves. He’s got a sharp wit, and a keen sense of what’s funny. He
doesn’t take things too seriously.

by carlos xuma
not entirely tru... cuz when it comes to women im the nice guy but around other ppl im the "Alpha male" i always end up the leader.

as for risk taking, you should see the way i drive, or act, or do pretty much anyhting... lets just say that in my car(V8 camaro) i've been able to scare just about everyone that has riden passenger to me... and i drive like that in anycar

[its_ok_hes_white]

Like a fucking kracker would know anything about Jesse Jackson. The nazi party is dat way>>>>>>>goddamn worthless albino bitch.
haven't you died yet?? isn't it enuff that i left your thread becuz ur soo fuckin annoying... leave me alone dickface. You win, go suck a dick in your thread.

[Reaper]

y r u so racist ? :confused:


It's a gift.

[Reaper]

haven't you died yet?? isn't it enuff that i left your thread becuz ur soo fuckin annoying... leave me alone dickface. You win, go suck a dick in your thread.

Thats right kracker...I win, dont ever forget it.

[its_ok_hes_white]

Thats right kracker...I win, dont ever forget it.
i gave up ... such a big win.. ho

[Reaper]

i gave up ... such a big win.. ho

Of course you gave up you worthless kracker...all krackers eventually run and hide.

[its_ok_hes_white]

Of course you gave up you worthless kracker...all krackers eventually run and hide.
i'm not running you fucking retard... im ignoring your ignant ass.... stupid dick face

[Reaper]

i'm not running you fucking retard... im ignoring your ignant ass.... stupid dick face

Ignoring, running its all the same shit you gutless fucking kracker.

[its_ok_hes_white]

Ignoring, running its all the same shit you gutless fucking kracker.
watever faget

[.BoRiQuA.]

aww thas good am sick of all those boyz that have no future n dun want no future

[Reaper]

watever faget

Nice comeback bitch ass kracker.

[bkboy0376]

im a nice guy :) n i got da girl i wanted on da real all i did was spit some game i was funny n she said i had da looks n we started datin but i treat her like a queen :D n i have a future lol

[blackblood]

no because alot of niggas will tell u anything that u wanna here and dont really mean it





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[SIXPAK GQ]

One of the attractive qualities of an Alpha Man is his willingness to jump in and
take life by the balls, not playing it “safe.” A woman can sense if a man is the kind who
will be fun to hang around because he’s either out there pushing the envelope, or he’s
working in the mailroom licking envelopes. Adventure and danger are no strangers to
the Alpha Man.
As you are aware, the “Bad Boy” myth – that women sleep with the dangerous
guys out there – has some elements of truth to it. Not every woman is attracted to this
type of man, but every woman is attracted to certain parts of the Bad Boy personality.
Let’s review these traits:
- Adventurous: Whether it’s drinking until 4:00 am, bungee-jumping off of
bridges, snowboarding – whatever, the Bad Boy is out doing risky things.
He’s not driving a station wagon under the speed limit; he’s driving a
motorcycle at high speeds. He doesn’t play it safe, and he needs new
experiences every day, or life becomes boring.
- Opinionated: Even if his opinions are a bit hard to understand and
sometimes immature, the Bad Boy has no problem telling you what he
thinks. Some people call this a “strong personality,” but he’s just able to
tell you exactly what’s on his mind. He’s not afraid to disagree with
anyone, either.
Self-interested: The Bad Boy has a great deal of self-interest, which
makes him challenging and interesting to other women. He has his own
hobbies and passions, and these translate into a fulfilled existence that he
can then pass along to other people. (Women sense that this also means
he’ll have the skills they want in bed, too.)
- Joker: His sense of humor is almost always well developed, and this
draws the ladies in. He knows how to make women laugh and enjoy
themselves. He’s got a sharp wit, and a keen sense of what’s funny. He
doesn’t take things too seriously.

by carlos xuma

i disagree about the station wagon and motor cycle part....driving over the limit will cost u speeding tickets therefore u will pay higher insurance prices in the future..

[its_ok_hes_white]

i disagree about the station wagon and motor cycle part....driving over the limit will cost u speeding tickets therefore u will pay higher insurance prices in the future..
maybe i should stop driving 120mph to school on the Turnpike erryday.....


































nah

[JAZOdaARTIST]

One of the attractive qualities of an Alpha Man is his willingness to jump in and
take life by the balls, not playing it “safe.” A woman can sense if a man is the kind who
will be fun to hang around because he’s either out there pushing the envelope, or he’s
working in the mailroom licking envelopes. Adventure and danger are no strangers to
the Alpha Man.
As you are aware, the “Bad Boy” myth – that women sleep with the dangerous
guys out there – has some elements of truth to it. Not every woman is attracted to this
type of man, but every woman is attracted to certain parts of the Bad Boy personality.
Let’s review these traits:
- Adventurous: Whether it’s drinking until 4:00 am, bungee-jumping off of
bridges, snowboarding – whatever, the Bad Boy is out doing risky things.
He’s not driving a station wagon under the speed limit; he’s driving a
motorcycle at high speeds. He doesn’t play it safe, and he needs new
experiences every day, or life becomes boring.
- Opinionated: Even if his opinions are a bit hard to understand and
sometimes immature, the Bad Boy has no problem telling you what he
thinks. Some people call this a “strong personality,” but he’s just able to
tell you exactly what’s on his mind. He’s not afraid to disagree with
anyone, either.
Self-interested: The Bad Boy has a great deal of self-interest, which
makes him challenging and interesting to other women. He has his own
hobbies and passions, and these translate into a fulfilled existence that he
can then pass along to other people. (Women sense that this also means
he’ll have the skills they want in bed, too.)
- Joker: His sense of humor is almost always well developed, and this
draws the ladies in. He knows how to make women laugh and enjoy
themselves. He’s got a sharp wit, and a keen sense of what’s funny. He
doesn’t take things too seriously.

by carlos xuma


aint that the truth.... thats why women love firefighters

[SIXPAK GQ]

maybe i should stop driving 120mph to school on the Turnpike erryday.....


































nah
Hey its ur life....and it seems like u wanna high insurance rates in the future. keep it up...either u learn from ur elders or learn it the hardway.....

[its_ok_hes_white]

Hey its ur life....and it seems like u wanna high insurance rates in the future. keep it up...either u learn from ur elders or learn it the hardway.....
They gotta catch me first..... my car was fast b4 i got the new motor and now is got 4 times the horsepower....


on the real i dont speed that much just when i know i can get away with it.... ie early morn/ late night

[SIXPAK GQ]

They gotta catch me first..... my car was fast b4 i got the new motor and now is got 4 times the horsepower....


on the real i dont speed that much just when i know i can get away with it.... ie early morn/ late night


I know you are young but I was once ur age.
and guys your age want to have the Thrills, drive fast cars; fix them up to impress the ladies. Now what good is a fast car if the speed limit is like 65 on the highway? you might even get away 10X but eventually you will get caught one way or the other, you can't f**k with the law!

[its_ok_hes_white]

I know you are young but I was once ur age.
and guys your age want to have the Thrills, drive fast cars; fix them up to impress the ladies. Now what good is a fast car if the speed limit is like 65 on the highway? you might even get away 10X but eventually you will get caught one way or the other, you can't f**k with the law!
how old do you think i am... how old r u


ooh and i dont fix mah car up to impress neone sept mah self... beside i drive a camaro... not much respect for my car around FL

[puertoricangio1]

tight shit man.. but I'm pretty sure ur about as likely to get elected Pres as Jesse Jackson... but I'd like to see it (u not him) lol

in the words of Dave Chappelle: "Damn, Bush is fucking up" gas at $3 a gallon....


ehhhhh its just dreamss.....i can dream cant i??????


~Gio~~

[haterade]

Do nice guys really finish last?
Current mood: calm

It's amazing that assholes can get girls. Actually, now that I think of it it's not that AMAZING. They are assholes at heart, but to meet girls they knavish their undying love. IT'S A CHARADE. They act nice, friendly, and they pretend that they listen to you until they get into what their after. Their prey thinks that they are in love with them, however when they realize what assholes their predators really are, they pretend like the asshole is really nice inside. The girl tries to change the asshole into a NICE GUY, but assholes will always be assholes. She gets upset and goes to the NICE GUY to complain about the ASSHOLE, but she claims to love the asshole...now this is where the THEORY begins. She does not want to look like she is easy so she won't dump the asshole right away, instead she will stay with the asshole.

GIRLS can be IDIOTS. They don't realize that the nice guy has been there all along. He never had to pretend to be the good guy to get girls because he is naturally like that. However, girls don't see it for some reason or another. They look at the nice guy as a friend, a trusted companion, to whom they can tell their sad story to about their asshole boyfriend. But the nice guy isn't THAT naive. He was trying to score with the girl he listens to all along. The problem is that since he is a nice guy he keeps listening.

Since girls get attached to things that pay attention to them, they think of the nice guy as a friend. A FRIEND. They don't say, "oh he's hot" or "u want to have his children" about the nice guy, they just want the emotional support. When they get the emotional support from the nice guy, they don't need it from the asshole. The nice guy get the shit end of the stick while the asshole gets all the action...I have been down this path for all of my post pubescent life and it has gotten me NOWHERE...at least not in the women department. Perhaps another reason why girls fall for the asshole is because assholes ignore the girl they are with. The women wonder, "Why isn't he paying attention to me?" so they explore why.

They poke and prod and get closer to the asshole. They start to get easier with each attempt to get closer. The asshole finally says, “I’ve let this beauty dangle long enough, time to boat this bass.” it is then he put on his charade and the girl feels like she has won him...even though all she won was an asshole. Once you have gone down this path as a nice guy or a "listener" you can't turn back. The girl will always go after the assholes because there are always nice guys there to listen. Once you realize that you are a "listener" you can't do anything about it...just pack up and close the shop. There is no way u will get into her pants...ever. There is and never will be a situation where the nice guy will get the girl he has a crush on.

It just doesn't work like that. The girl won't "come to her senses" and realize what an asshole her boyfriend is like in the movies...instead she will just go after another asshole, and unless you stop being a nice guy, she will never go after you. Women complain that there are no nice guys in the world. RIGHT! They are obviously not looking hard enough because there are nice guys everywhere! Girls aren't looking for nice guys...they say they are but they're not. They are looking for the perfect asshole, but there is no such thing as the perfect asshole. All in all, the nice guy gets the shaft. To all the girls out there with boyfriends that don't treat you with respect, that don't listen to you, and that don't care about you I say this; look next to you.

The guy that has been standing next to you the whole time is the guy you have been looking for. He is what u want your asshole to be like. He knows more about you than you know yourself because he has listened to it all."

what do you guys think?assholes get the girls nice guys get the shaft end of story

[SIXPAK GQ]

how old do you think i am... how old r u


ooh and i dont fix mah car up to impress neone sept mah self... beside i drive a camaro... not much respect for my car around FL


according to ur profile ur 18 and young. i am 27.

[DaRealMe_Mami]

it'z all tru that'z sum deep shyt.. i'mma nice honest guy and i alwayz finish last why... cuz the majority of some females wants a sertain Quality from a man depending on the situation but 2 me Most Stuck up AssHolez R Females anyway depending on how u Aproch them in some cases...but i'm alwayz last in thiz Episode damn when r u females r gonna wake up

[chicago_chula]

yeah its tru alot of gurlz want guyz that are hard 2 get or w/e
the bad thing is that those guyz lie about their feelings and da gurl falls in love and da guy never felt nething 4 her
so she gets hung up ova him
and cant get over him
and if a " nice " guy comes
she dont see him as a nice guy but an asshole 4 tryin 2 make her 4get about da other guy




yeah its confusing but thats how i look at it

[SIXPAK GQ]

nice guys finish last, so what....

girls have to go through the bad ones before they get to the good one.

older women don't play games. do u really think a women are going to marry a bad boy?

bad boys finish first at first but guess who the lady sees at the end of the tunnel? ...its that nice guy who finished last...

[SIXPAK GQ]

yeah its tru alot of gurlz want guyz that are hard 2 get or w/e
the bad thing is that those guyz lie about their feelings and da gurl falls in love and da guy never felt nething 4 her
so she gets hung up ova him
and cant get over him
and if a " nice " guy comes
she dont see him as a nice guy but an asshole 4 tryin 2 make her 4get about da other guy




yeah its confusing but thats how i look at it

so i guess ur one of them girls who goes for the bad guy just like u described?

[Kid Willy-Nilly]

Do nice guys really finish last?
Current mood: calm

It's amazing that assholes can get girls. Actually, now that I think of it it's not that AMAZING. They are assholes at heart, but to meet girls they knavish their undying love. IT'S A CHARADE. They act nice, friendly, and they pretend that they listen to you until they get into what their after. Their prey thinks that they are in love with them, however when they realize what assholes their predators really are, they pretend like the asshole is really nice inside. The girl tries to change the asshole into a NICE GUY, but assholes will always be assholes. She gets upset and goes to the NICE GUY to complain about the ASSHOLE, but she claims to love the asshole...now this is where the THEORY begins. She does not want to look like she is easy so she won't dump the asshole right away, instead she will stay with the asshole.

GIRLS can be IDIOTS. They don't realize that the nice guy has been there all along. He never had to pretend to be the good guy to get girls because he is naturally like that. However, girls don't see it for some reason or another. They look at the nice guy as a friend, a trusted companion, to whom they can tell their sad story to about their asshole boyfriend. But the nice guy isn't THAT naive. He was trying to score with the girl he listens to all along. The problem is that since he is a nice guy he keeps listening.

Since girls get attached to things that pay attention to them, they think of the nice guy as a friend. A FRIEND. They don't say, "oh he's hot" or "u want to have his children" about the nice guy, they just want the emotional support. When they get the emotional support from the nice guy, they don't need it from the asshole. The nice guy get the shit end of the stick while the asshole gets all the action...I have been down this path for all of my post pubescent life and it has gotten me NOWHERE...at least not in the women department. Perhaps another reason why girls fall for the asshole is because assholes ignore the girl they are with. The women wonder, "Why isn't he paying attention to me?" so they explore why.

They poke and prod and get closer to the asshole. They start to get easier with each attempt to get closer. The asshole finally says, “I’ve let this beauty dangle long enough, time to boat this bass.” it is then he put on his charade and the girl feels like she has won him...even though all she won was an asshole. Once you have gone down this path as a nice guy or a "listener" you can't turn back. The girl will always go after the assholes because there are always nice guys there to listen. Once you realize that you are a "listener" you can't do anything about it...just pack up and close the shop. There is no way u will get into her pants...ever. There is and never will be a situation where the nice guy will get the girl he has a crush on.

It just doesn't work like that. The girl won't "come to her senses" and realize what an asshole her boyfriend is like in the movies...instead she will just go after another asshole, and unless you stop being a nice guy, she will never go after you. Women complain that there are no nice guys in the world. RIGHT! They are obviously not looking hard enough because there are nice guys everywhere! Girls aren't looking for nice guys...they say they are but they're not. They are looking for the perfect asshole, but there is no such thing as the perfect asshole. All in all, the nice guy gets the shaft. To all the girls out there with boyfriends that don't treat you with respect, that don't listen to you, and that don't care about you I say this; look next to you.

The guy that has been standing next to you the whole time is the guy you have been looking for. He is what u want your asshole to be like. He knows more about you than you know yourself because he has listened to it all."

what do you guys think?

Ma'Fuckin Bump!!! :cool:

[TX COLOMBIANO]

Good thread


Like I said in my first (unquoted :mad: ) post.....


Girls want too much.



I hear girls talk about what they want.

"I want a pretty boy thug..."

"I want a sensitive thug..."

GTFO


oxymorons....

But yeah, girls need to sit down and realize we aren't here to hand them everything on a plate and change according to their standards.

I'm always real with girls, fuck that "i got game nigga" approach.

[La_PoTrA]

Good thread


Like I said in my first (unquoted :mad: ) post.....


Girls want too much.



I hear girls talk about what they want.

"I want a pretty boy thug..."

"I want a sensitive thug..."

GTFO


oxymorons....

But yeah, girls need to sit down and realize we aren't here to hand them everything on a plate and change according to their standards.

I'm always real with girls, fuck that "i got game nigga" approach.

ahh i read wut u wrote jae........

very intrestinq indeed :cool:

[TX COLOMBIANO]

ahh i read wut u wrote jae........

very intrestinq indeed :cool:
Don't substitute Q's for G's.


Please.


I can't stand teenage girls who type like monkeys

[La_PoTrA]

Don't substitute Q's for G's.


Please.


I can't stand teenage girls who type like monkeys
STFU faaaaaaaaaqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqoooooooootttttt . . . . . :)
how i type has has nothin to do wit u and it's not meant to please u. . . . iite ;)
bye, bye

[TX COLOMBIANO]

STFU faaaaaaaaaqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqoooooooootttttt . . . . . :)
how i type has has nothin to do wit u and it's not meant to please u. . . . iite ;)
bye, bye
lmao at you writing down the other forum girls' ways of arguing


You suck at sarcasm


*waits for you to empty your heart out on the phone*

[PAPITOLIMPIATOTO]

Do nice guys really finish last?
Current mood: calm

It's amazing that assholes can get girls. Actually, now that I think of it it's not that AMAZING. They are assholes at heart, but to meet girls they knavish their undying love. IT'S A CHARADE. They act nice, friendly, and they pretend that they listen to you until they get into what their after. Their prey thinks that they are in love with them, however when they realize what assholes their predators really are, they pretend like the asshole is really nice inside. The girl tries to change the asshole into a NICE GUY, but assholes will always be assholes. She gets upset and goes to the NICE GUY to complain about the ASSHOLE, but she claims to love the asshole...now this is where the THEORY begins. She does not want to look like she is easy so she won't dump the asshole right away, instead she will stay with the asshole.

GIRLS can be IDIOTS. They don't realize that the nice guy has been there all along. He never had to pretend to be the good guy to get girls because he is naturally like that. However, girls don't see it for some reason or another. They look at the nice guy as a friend, a trusted companion, to whom they can tell their sad story to about their asshole boyfriend. But the nice guy isn't THAT naive. He was trying to score with the girl he listens to all along. The problem is that since he is a nice guy he keeps listening.

Since girls get attached to things that pay attention to them, they think of the nice guy as a friend. A FRIEND. They don't say, "oh he's hot" or "u want to have his children" about the nice guy, they just want the emotional support. When they get the emotional support from the nice guy, they don't need it from the asshole. The nice guy get the shit end of the stick while the asshole gets all the action...I have been down this path for all of my post pubescent life and it has gotten me NOWHERE...at least not in the women department. Perhaps another reason why girls fall for the asshole is because assholes ignore the girl they are with. The women wonder, "Why isn't he paying attention to me?" so they explore why.

They poke and prod and get closer to the asshole. They start to get easier with each attempt to get closer. The asshole finally says, “I’ve let this beauty dangle long enough, time to boat this bass.” it is then he put on his charade and the girl feels like she has won him...even though all she won was an asshole. Once you have gone down this path as a nice guy or a "listener" you can't turn back. The girl will always go after the assholes because there are always nice guys there to listen. Once you realize that you are a "listener" you can't do anything about it...just pack up and close the shop. There is no way u will get into her pants...ever. There is and never will be a situation where the nice guy will get the girl he has a crush on.

It just doesn't work like that. The girl won't "come to her senses" and realize what an asshole her boyfriend is like in the movies...instead she will just go after another asshole, and unless you stop being a nice guy, she will never go after you. Women complain that there are no nice guys in the world. RIGHT! They are obviously not looking hard enough because there are nice guys everywhere! Girls aren't looking for nice guys...they say they are but they're not. They are looking for the perfect asshole, but there is no such thing as the perfect asshole. All in all, the nice guy gets the shaft. To all the girls out there with boyfriends that don't treat you with respect, that don't listen to you, and that don't care about you I say this; look next to you.

The guy that has been standing next to you the whole time is the guy you have been looking for. He is what u want your asshole to be like. He knows more about you than you know yourself because he has listened to it all."

what do you guys think?
all that yappin' ... is non-sense

[La_PoTrA]

lmao at you writing down the other forum girls' ways of arguing


You suck at sarcasm


*waits for you to empty your heart out on the phone*
:confused:

[ICanBeYourDream]

:confused:
:confused: :o


Hi :D

[La_PoTrA]

:confused: :o


Hi :D
lol . . . . :rolleyes:


Hiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii :D

[ICanBeYourDream]

lol . . . . :rolleyes:


Hiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii :D
:D :o


I can't wait for my NY Family Reunion :D

country of NY tho :(

[La_PoTrA]

:D :o


I can't wait for my NY Family Reunion :D

country of NY tho :(
pffft . . .

hahaha . . :(

lalalala :mad: i wrote to u on myspace :mad:

[ICanBeYourDream]

pffft . . .

hahaha . . :(

lalalala :mad: i wrote to u on myspace :mad:
i kno i wrote to ur pic on myspace :o :mad: :D

[La_PoTrA]

i kno i wrote to ur pic on myspace :o :mad: :D
if u say so :mad:

[TX COLOMBIANO]

:confused:
smh


it's not that hard


your profile/responses to ownage = every other cocky e-girl out there

[La_PoTrA]

smh


it's not that hard


your profile/responses to ownage = every other cocky e-girl out there
im not tryna be cocky . . its that
i didnt even say nothin to u at first and u complain on how i type
let me be . . . and the way i type really isnt supposed to please u. .
damn , i like it .

[theYAYgirl]

well alot of girls out there like bad boyz,,but ya i guess u can say that most nice guyz finish last. see the thing about me is that i want a nice guy...but not 2 sensitive that he will ccry for NETHING. i dont think its bad if a guy cries..some gyuz think that iz weak, but its not, guys have feelins too. i just want a guy that will treat me right. bad boyz r to much drama sumtimes

[ICanBeYourDream]

some perks for being a nice guy :D

[TX COLOMBIANO]

Women hate softies



Hell, alot of men don't even associate with softies

I don't


Since there's usually a typical personality that comes with the nice guys, they're not cool friends


One of my best friends is a pretty nice guy though, but he's mad mature and g's bitches up at the same time.

[theYAYgirl]

I Want A Nice Guy In My Life
But Not A Soft Ass Guy That Will Not Back Me Up
WITH A BAD BOY LOOK, U NO NICE STYLE N SHIT :cool:

[Marble]

yall to picky.

[theYAYgirl]

yall guyz hella picky too
i aint even that picky..i just have standards

[boyz_inda_hood]

Do nice guys really finish last?
Current mood: calm

It's amazing that assholes can get girls. Actually, now that I think of it it's not that AMAZING. They are assholes at heart, but to meet girls they knavish their undying love. IT'S A CHARADE. They act nice, friendly, and they pretend that they listen to you until they get into what their after. Their prey thinks that they are in love with them, however when they realize what assholes their predators really are, they pretend like the asshole is really nice inside. The girl tries to change the asshole into a NICE GUY, but assholes will always be assholes. She gets upset and goes to the NICE GUY to complain about the ASSHOLE, but she claims to love the asshole...now this is where the THEORY begins. She does not want to look like she is easy so she won't dump the asshole right away, instead she will stay with the asshole.

GIRLS can be IDIOTS. They don't realize that the nice guy has been there all along. He never had to pretend to be the good guy to get girls because he is naturally like that. However, girls don't see it for some reason or another. They look at the nice guy as a friend, a trusted companion, to whom they can tell their sad story to about their asshole boyfriend. But the nice guy isn't THAT naive. He was trying to score with the girl he listens to all along. The problem is that since he is a nice guy he keeps listening.

Since girls get attached to things that pay attention to them, they think of the nice guy as a friend. A FRIEND. They don't say, "oh he's hot" or "u want to have his children" about the nice guy, they just want the emotional support. When they get the emotional support from the nice guy, they don't need it from the asshole. The nice guy get the shit end of the stick while the asshole gets all the action...I have been down this path for all of my post pubescent life and it has gotten me NOWHERE...at least not in the women department. Perhaps another reason why girls fall for the asshole is because assholes ignore the girl they are with. The women wonder, "Why isn't he paying attention to me?" so they explore why.

They poke and prod and get closer to the asshole. They start to get easier with each attempt to get closer. The asshole finally says, “I’ve let this beauty dangle long enough, time to boat this bass.” it is then he put on his charade and the girl feels like she has won him...even though all she won was an asshole. Once you have gone down this path as a nice guy or a "listener" you can't turn back. The girl will always go after the assholes because there are always nice guys there to listen. Once you realize that you are a "listener" you can't do anything about it...just pack up and close the shop. There is no way u will get into her pants...ever. There is and never will be a situation where the nice guy will get the girl he has a crush on.

It just doesn't work like that. The girl won't "come to her senses" and realize what an asshole her boyfriend is like in the movies...instead she will just go after another asshole, and unless you stop being a nice guy, she will never go after you. Women complain that there are no nice guys in the world. RIGHT! They are obviously not looking hard enough because there are nice guys everywhere! Girls aren't looking for nice guys...they say they are but they're not. They are looking for the perfect asshole, but there is no such thing as the perfect asshole. All in all, the nice guy gets the shaft. To all the girls out there with boyfriends that don't treat you with respect, that don't listen to you, and that don't care about you I say this; look next to you.

The guy that has been standing next to you the whole time is the guy you have been looking for. He is what u want your asshole to be like. He knows more about you than you know yourself because he has listened to it all."

what do you guys think?

diss izz soo truu... girlz nowaday'z goin for wanksters and ppl they think are 'BAD' or ppl dat treat dem like shyt.... it'ss preety stupid how girls go wid da asshole, den wen da asshole cheats on dem which da girl see's, dey fukin act blindly an styll dunn leave da man...

serioslyy diss makess noo sense... BUT the only thing that i would understand is girls do this, cause probably the jerks are more confident den the listeners.. an dere's soo many listener's for da fukin sexy bich, dere only sum assholes... so she goes for assholes since she wants change den goin for all da same guy'z.... .

annd bout da dressin,, id personally like dressing baggy den dressin tight an shyt.... buhh datt dunn meann i start actinn all wankster cause i dont.... im naw one of doese fukin guy'z who think being dumb in skool iz cool and acting like a thug and goin everywere to start beef thinking dey run da skool... :) :o :cool:

[TX COLOMBIANO]

yall to picky.
Everybody is


Men just know how to lower their standards more.

[theYAYgirl]

^^^^^^^^^very very very mean guy^^^^^^

[pojp]

yes nice guys finish last :(

[TX COLOMBIANO]

yes nice guys finish last :(
self ownage

[desi_balla]

fkn pooftass

[LitoWeapN]

Nice Guys Finish Last And Die First

[BEEN_IN_UR_CHIK]

yes..so im being a dick form now on

[TX COLOMBIANO]

^^^^^^^^^very very very mean guy^^^^^^
and that's why we ALWAYS phone-fuck


puta :o

[txgirl-n-wat06]

its is true i know ive put myself in dat i have onli myself 2 blame i admit 2 muh mistakes... ive talked 2 so many guys who treat me like shyt everyone knows it i know it but i let 'em treat me like dat so its my fault...fuk it ive learned 4rm muh mistakes i decided 2 become a bitch lol cuz some guys are da same da min. u show em u aint sweatin em no more thats when they want 2 give u attention n want u bak...

[txgirl-n-wat06]

I Want A Nice Guy In My Life
But Not A Soft Ass Guy That Will Not Back Me Up
WITH A BAD BOY LOOK, U NO NICE STYLE N SHIT :cool:
dats wat i said ... but if they try n look da part most likely they will act da part

[brazilianchulo03]

Do nice guys really finish last?
Current mood: calm

It's amazing that assholes can get girls. Actually, now that I think of it it's not that AMAZING. They are assholes at heart, but to meet girls they knavish their undying love. IT'S A CHARADE. They act nice, friendly, and they pretend that they listen to you until they get into what their after. Their prey thinks that they are in love with them, however when they realize what assholes their predators really are, they pretend like the asshole is really nice inside. The girl tries to change the asshole into a NICE GUY, but assholes will always be assholes. She gets upset and goes to the NICE GUY to complain about the ASSHOLE, but she claims to love the asshole...now this is where the THEORY begins. She does not want to look like she is easy so she won't dump the asshole right away, instead she will stay with the asshole.

GIRLS can be IDIOTS. They don't realize that the nice guy has been there all along. He never had to pretend to be the good guy to get girls because he is naturally like that. However, girls don't see it for some reason or another. They look at the nice guy as a friend, a trusted companion, to whom they can tell their sad story to about their asshole boyfriend. But the nice guy isn't THAT naive. He was trying to score with the girl he listens to all along. The problem is that since he is a nice guy he keeps listening.

Since girls get attached to things that pay attention to them, they think of the nice guy as a friend. A FRIEND. They don't say, "oh he's hot" or "u want to have his children" about the nice guy, they just want the emotional support. When they get the emotional support from the nice guy, they don't need it from the asshole. The nice guy get the shit end of the stick while the asshole gets all the action...I have been down this path for all of my post pubescent life and it has gotten me NOWHERE...at least not in the women department. Perhaps another reason why girls fall for the asshole is because assholes ignore the girl they are with. The women wonder, "Why isn't he paying attention to me?" so they explore why.

They poke and prod and get closer to the asshole. They start to get easier with each attempt to get closer. The asshole finally says, “I’ve let this beauty dangle long enough, time to boat this bass.” it is then he put on his charade and the girl feels like she has won him...even though all she won was an asshole. Once you have gone down this path as a nice guy or a "listener" you can't turn back. The girl will always go after the assholes because there are always nice guys there to listen. Once you realize that you are a "listener" you can't do anything about it...just pack up and close the shop. There is no way u will get into her pants...ever. There is and never will be a situation where the nice guy will get the girl he has a crush on.

It just doesn't work like that. The girl won't "come to her senses" and realize what an asshole her boyfriend is like in the movies...instead she will just go after another asshole, and unless you stop being a nice guy, she will never go after you. Women complain that there are no nice guys in the world. RIGHT! They are obviously not looking hard enough because there are nice guys everywhere! Girls aren't looking for nice guys...they say they are but they're not. They are looking for the perfect asshole, but there is no such thing as the perfect asshole. All in all, the nice guy gets the shaft. To all the girls out there with boyfriends that don't treat you with respect, that don't listen to you, and that don't care about you I say this; look next to you.

The guy that has been standing next to you the whole time is the guy you have been looking for. He is what u want your asshole to be like. He knows more about you than you know yourself because he has listened to it all."

what do you guys think?

Ok, lets stop walking in shallow water and lets dig deep to fathom. Nice guys finish last, simply because the woman does not feel lascivious towards him. its plain and simple...the avg. nice guy (note average, meaning not every nice guy) is some over weight loser, who doesnt have much experience with females...he can't really rely on his looks, well frankly he tried that already but it didnt work...so he must solely try to achieve the soubrette candidate with his personality. "Bad boys" are adventurous, a challenge, sexy, erotic, good looking,uncrontollable, and have a stereotype for being great in bed. though a bad boy may not meet her emotional criterias the way a nice guy does, with his listening, and so on...the bad boy however, entices her carnal instincts and being that humans are animals...then my friend, when you can get that woman to feel sexy and sensual for you...you have her wrapped...because every woman, like every man has a major weakness for sex. thank you for reading...now go ponder and let it linger...hahaha

[Soulicitor]

Hmmm Im an in between guy... cuz I fuck up but Im romantic

[sparkle4myguyz]

dats wat i said ... but if they try n look da part most likely they will act da part
uh huh :o

[Chil3na]

lol i'm usually the meanie : x

[KrAzY_gAtA]

Do nice guys really finish last?
Current mood: calm

It's amazing that assholes can get girls. Actually, now that I think of it it's not that AMAZING. They are assholes at heart, but to meet girls they knavish their undying love. IT'S A CHARADE. They act nice, friendly, and they pretend that they listen to you until they get into what their after. Their prey thinks that they are in love with them, however when they realize what assholes their predators really are, they pretend like the asshole is really nice inside. The girl tries to change the asshole into a NICE GUY, but assholes will always be assholes. She gets upset and goes to the NICE GUY to complain about the ASSHOLE, but she claims to love the asshole...now this is where the THEORY begins. She does not want to look like she is easy so she won't dump the asshole right away, instead she will stay with the asshole.

GIRLS can be IDIOTS. They don't realize that the nice guy has been there all along. He never had to pretend to be the good guy to get girls because he is naturally like that. However, girls don't see it for some reason or another. They look at the nice guy as a friend, a trusted companion, to whom they can tell their sad story to about their asshole boyfriend. But the nice guy isn't THAT naive. He was trying to score with the girl he listens to all along. The problem is that since he is a nice guy he keeps listening.

Since girls get attached to things that pay attention to them, they think of the nice guy as a friend. A FRIEND. They don't say, "oh he's hot" or "u want to have his children" about the nice guy, they just want the emotional support. When they get the emotional support from the nice guy, they don't need it from the asshole. The nice guy get the shit end of the stick while the asshole gets all the action...I have been down this path for all of my post pubescent life and it has gotten me NOWHERE...at least not in the women department. Perhaps another reason why girls fall for the asshole is because assholes ignore the girl they are with. The women wonder, "Why isn't he paying attention to me?" so they explore why.

They poke and prod and get closer to the asshole. They start to get easier with each attempt to get closer. The asshole finally says, “I’ve let this beauty dangle long enough, time to boat this bass.” it is then he put on his charade and the girl feels like she has won him...even though all she won was an asshole. Once you have gone down this path as a nice guy or a "listener" you can't turn back. The girl will always go after the assholes because there are always nice guys there to listen. Once you realize that you are a "listener" you can't do anything about it...just pack up and close the shop. There is no way u will get into her pants...ever. There is and never will be a situation where the nice guy will get the girl he has a crush on.

It just doesn't work like that. The girl won't "come to her senses" and realize what an asshole her boyfriend is like in the movies...instead she will just go after another asshole, and unless you stop being a nice guy, she will never go after you. Women complain that there are no nice guys in the world. RIGHT! They are obviously not looking hard enough because there are nice guys everywhere! Girls aren't looking for nice guys...they say they are but they're not. They are looking for the perfect asshole, but there is no such thing as the perfect asshole. All in all, the nice guy gets the shaft. To all the girls out there with boyfriends that don't treat you with respect, that don't listen to you, and that don't care about you I say this; look next to you.

The guy that has been standing next to you the whole time is the guy you have been looking for. He is what u want your asshole to be like. He knows more about you than you know yourself because he has listened to it all."

what do you guys think?

I agree with what u say. I think nice guys always finish last. I'll admit I've always been attracted to those "gangsta guys" but i always had my nice guy right by my side, when all the those "gangsta guys" hurt me that nice guy was there for me. Nice guys aren't softies!
After all the "thugs" i got a crush on i ended up with the nice guy. He looks and acts like a thug but he's always a true nice guy even when his friends are around he aint ashamed to hold my hand or tell me he loves me. He has cried on my shoulder and dont doesnt make him a wuss.


Like u said gurls always say there are no nice guys but there is!
They're standing beside us holding us up making sure we are always happy!

http://i12.photobucket.com/albums/a244/gatashelp4urpage/LOOKIN4ATHUG.gif

[colombiano.]

wow . . . i m surprised someone came up with that theory

[cityboymia3o5]

Do nice guys really finish last?
Current mood: calm

It's amazing that assholes can get girls. Actually, now that I think of it it's not that AMAZING. They are assholes at heart, but to meet girls they knavish their undying love. IT'S A CHARADE. They act nice, friendly, and they pretend that they listen to you until they get into what their after. Their prey thinks that they are in love with them, however when they realize what assholes their predators really are, they pretend like the asshole is really nice inside. The girl tries to change the asshole into a NICE GUY, but assholes will always be assholes. She gets upset and goes to the NICE GUY to complain about the ASSHOLE, but she claims to love the asshole...now this is where the THEORY begins. She does not want to look like she is easy so she won't dump the asshole right away, instead she will stay with the asshole.

GIRLS can be IDIOTS. They don't realize that the nice guy has been there all along. He never had to pretend to be the good guy to get girls because he is naturally like that. However, girls don't see it for some reason or another. They look at the nice guy as a friend, a trusted companion, to whom they can tell their sad story to about their asshole boyfriend. But the nice guy isn't THAT naive. He was trying to score with the girl he listens to all along. The problem is that since he is a nice guy he keeps listening.

Since girls get attached to things that pay attention to them, they think of the nice guy as a friend. A FRIEND. They don't say, "oh he's hot" or "u want to have his children" about the nice guy, they just want the emotional support. When they get the emotional support from the nice guy, they don't need it from the asshole. The nice guy get the shit end of the stick while the asshole gets all the action...I have been down this path for all of my post pubescent life and it has gotten me NOWHERE...at least not in the women department. Perhaps another reason why girls fall for the asshole is because assholes ignore the girl they are with. The women wonder, "Why isn't he paying attention to me?" so they explore why.

They poke and prod and get closer to the asshole. They start to get easier with each attempt to get closer. The asshole finally says, “I’ve let this beauty dangle long enough, time to boat this bass.” it is then he put on his charade and the girl feels like she has won him...even though all she won was an asshole. Once you have gone down this path as a nice guy or a "listener" you can't turn back. The girl will always go after the assholes because there are always nice guys there to listen. Once you realize that you are a "listener" you can't do anything about it...just pack up and close the shop. There is no way u will get into her pants...ever. There is and never will be a situation where the nice guy will get the girl he has a crush on.

It just doesn't work like that. The girl won't "come to her senses" and realize what an asshole her boyfriend is like in the movies...instead she will just go after another asshole, and unless you stop being a nice guy, she will never go after you. Women complain that there are no nice guys in the world. RIGHT! They are obviously not looking hard enough because there are nice guys everywhere! Girls aren't looking for nice guys...they say they are but they're not. They are looking for the perfect asshole, but there is no such thing as the perfect asshole. All in all, the nice guy gets the shaft. To all the girls out there with boyfriends that don't treat you with respect, that don't listen to you, and that don't care about you I say this; look next to you.

The guy that has been standing next to you the whole time is the guy you have been looking for. He is what u want your asshole to be like. He knows more about you than you know yourself because he has listened to it all."

what do you guys think? yea i agree wif wat u said , in my old high school , all i saw was ghetto guys/weedheads/gangbangers with da prettiest/sexiest girls in the school , i mean that'z pretty stupid , they treat em like shit and they 're still with them , they make them feel bad infront of everyone and she still wif him , good thing im in college right now , u dont see dat in college , smh

[whiteboi89]

im a good guy. but i can never seem to find the right girl. like i listen to every gurl but they neva listen n ur right they always go to the asshole n i always warned them about it. i just wish a gurl would like to get to know sum1 be4 they make a decision of having to go out with them. cuz they always get fucked in the end. n wut do u know the good guy always does finish last. like gurls now and days only care about looks n they dont kare about the person on the inside and they get hurt in the end. because they rush things.

[Bxflynigga]

Ok, lets stop walking in shallow water and lets dig deep to fathom. Nice guys finish last, simply because the woman does not feel lascivious towards him. its plain and simple...the avg. nice guy (note average, meaning not every nice guy) is some over weight loser, who doesnt have much experience with females...he can't really rely on his looks, well frankly he tried that already but it didnt work...so he must solely try to achieve the soubrette candidate with his personality. "Bad boys" are adventurous, a challenge, sexy, erotic, good looking,uncrontollable, and have a stereotype for being great in bed. though a bad boy may not meet her emotional criterias the way a nice guy does, with his listening, and so on...the bad boy however, entices her carnal instincts and being that humans are animals...then my friend, when you can get that woman to feel sexy and sensual for you...you have her wrapped...because every woman, like every man has a major weakness for sex. thank you for reading...now go ponder and let it linger...hahaha


well said.

[LitoWeapN]

im a good guy. but i can never seem to find the right girl. like i listen to every gurl but they neva listen n ur right they always go to the asshole n i always warned them about it. i just wish a gurl would like to get to know sum1 be4 they make a decision of having to go out with them. cuz they always get fucked in the end. n wut do u know the good guy always does finish last. like gurls now and days only care about looks n they dont kare about the person on the inside and they get hurt in the end. because they rush things.
dnt take this to offense but its cus u white :o

[~SLiCK~]

gurls always want da nigga that acts da toughest even if he aint, they always want da front cuz they still need that little romantic sensitiveness that sum niggas b havin inside! N THATS DA TRUTH

[whiteboi89]

yeah i feel u on dat 1....

[jus_suckme]

yes :D

[sweetserenity90]

Do nice guys really finish last?
Current mood: calm

It's amazing that assholes can get girls. Actually, now that I think of it it's not that AMAZING. They are assholes at heart, but to meet girls they knavish their undying love. IT'S A CHARADE. They act nice, friendly, and they pretend that they listen to you until they get into what their after. Their prey thinks that they are in love with them, however when they realize what assholes their predators really are, they pretend like the asshole is really nice inside. The girl tries to change the asshole into a NICE GUY, but assholes will always be assholes. She gets upset and goes to the NICE GUY to complain about the ASSHOLE, but she claims to love the asshole...now this is where the THEORY begins. She does not want to look like she is easy so she won't dump the asshole right away, instead she will stay with the asshole.

GIRLS can be IDIOTS. They don't realize that the nice guy has been there all along. He never had to pretend to be the good guy to get girls because he is naturally like that. However, girls don't see it for some reason or another. They look at the nice guy as a friend, a trusted companion, to whom they can tell their sad story to about their asshole boyfriend. But the nice guy isn't THAT naive. He was trying to score with the girl he listens to all along. The problem is that since he is a nice guy he keeps listening.

Since girls get attached to things that pay attention to them, they think of the nice guy as a friend. A FRIEND. They don't say, "oh he's hot" or "u want to have his children" about the nice guy, they just want the emotional support. When they get the emotional support from the nice guy, they don't need it from the asshole. The nice guy get the shit end of the stick while the asshole gets all the action...I have been down this path for all of my post pubescent life and it has gotten me NOWHERE...at least not in the women department. Perhaps another reason why girls fall for the asshole is because assholes ignore the girl they are with. The women wonder, "Why isn't he paying attention to me?" so they explore why.

They poke and prod and get closer to the asshole. They start to get easier with each attempt to get closer. The asshole finally says, “I’ve let this beauty dangle long enough, time to boat this bass.” it is then he put on his charade and the girl feels like she has won him...even though all she won was an asshole. Once you have gone down this path as a nice guy or a "listener" you can't turn back. The girl will always go after the assholes because there are always nice guys there to listen. Once you realize that you are a "listener" you can't do anything about it...just pack up and close the shop. There is no way u will get into her pants...ever. There is and never will be a situation where the nice guy will get the girl he has a crush on.

It just doesn't work like that. The girl won't "come to her senses" and realize what an asshole her boyfriend is like in the movies...instead she will just go after another asshole, and unless you stop being a nice guy, she will never go after you. Women complain that there are no nice guys in the world. RIGHT! They are obviously not looking hard enough because there are nice guys everywhere! Girls aren't looking for nice guys...they say they are but they're not. They are looking for the perfect asshole, but there is no such thing as the perfect asshole. All in all, the nice guy gets the shaft. To all the girls out there with boyfriends that don't treat you with respect, that don't listen to you, and that don't care about you I say this; look next to you.

The guy that has been standing next to you the whole time is the guy you have been looking for. He is what u want your asshole to be like. He knows more about you than you know yourself because he has listened to it all."

what do you guys think?
It's true. I was in this whole situation for 10 months*sighs*...Learned from my mistakes though...:D

[LitoWeapN]

Nice Finish Last And Die 1st

[Nc Mex]

Nice Finish Last And Die 1st
hell yeah your right they do get killed well die

[~SLiCK~]

i had to bring this 1 back cuz i was tryna b nice to a chick this weekend n it didnt fuckin work! :(

[La_PoTrA]

word.

[LitoWeapN]

word.
word

[LitoWeapN]

hell yeah your right they do get killed well die
how many nice guys go ova a friend house to confort them only to b shot by their jealous boyfriend?
plenty

[TX COLOMBIANO]

ha

This thread...painfully true

I'm not a giant asshole in most cases when it comes to the treatment of women, but I know better than to show my thirst. I'd like to be nice n all, but their fucked up wants and logic make me do so otherwise.

NEVER SHOW YOUR THIRST UNLESS YOU'RE POSITIVE OF THERE BEING AN OUTCOME THAT FAVORS YOU.

NEVER!

I was nicer....back in the middle school days. Now I conditioned myself to be colder and grimier to chicks...all due to anger, resentment, and influences. I fight ALOT with chicks, and I get a certain pleasure when I win. Maybe it's the feeling of reminding them of what they are to me and where they belong. I know it sounds rude and misogynist, but I'm forced to treat alot of girls like that, and seeing as I've always been unnecessarily hateful towards everybody, chicks just make it worse for me. And not so surprisingly, they come back after we fight thinking I forgot about it...which my bitter ass never does.

I remember I never was this violent till around 10th grade...It continued bottling up, and still is...Boy, I can't wait till my next fight to fuck some nigga up bad, let's hope I don't wild out though, I remember how I did that dude in the rumble before 1st period last year.

But yea, I'm even mean to chicks I hold dearly to me...like my girl or other female friends (true friends btw).

As rude as it sounds...I guess it's how it works in alot of cases, and not how I'd truly like it to be.

[La_PoTrA]

ha

This thread...painfully true

I'm not a giant asshole in most cases when it comes to the treatment of women, but I know better than to show my thirst. I'd like to be nice n all, but their fucked up wants and logic make me do so otherwise.

NEVER SHOW YOUR THIRST UNLESS YOU'RE POSITIVE OF THERE BEING AN OUTCOME THAT FAVORS YOU.

NEVER!

I was nicer....back in the middle school days. Now I conditioned myself to be colder and grimier to chicks...all due to anger, resentment, and influences. I fight ALOT with chicks, and I get a certain pleasure when I win. Maybe it's the feeling of reminding them of what they are to me and where they belong. I know it sounds rude and misogynist, but I'm forced to treat alot of girls like that, and seeing as I've always been unnecessarily hateful towards everybody, chicks just make it worse for me. And not so surprisingly, they come back after we fight thinking I forgot about it...which my bitter ass never does.

I remember I never was this violent till around 10th grade...It continued bottling up, and still is...Boy, I can't wait till my next fight to fuck some nigga up bad, let's hope I don't wild out though, I remember how I did that dude in the rumble before 1st period last year.

But yea, I'm even mean to chicks I hold dearly to me...like my girl or other female friends (true friends btw).

As rude as it sounds...I guess it's how it works in alot of cases, and not how I'd truly like it to be.
and even though you`re like that with chicks [including myself at times :rant:] you notice we come back... i don`t like to be treated like that with someone i like but then again notice how i treated that ugly dude... and this goes the same for girls when a girl gives a guy too much attention the dude takes advantage of it ... when i stop to give them attention they start to come back and then it`s different... but when i really like someone and i notice they`re just using me i say fuck it and then they start to want the attention back ... but idk bicho

[lachickamassexii]

thats very true

[Alex Mr. Marine]

Hell yeah shits right I used to be that nice guy and then I realized what was going on. Fucken a now im the ass but shit you gots to do what you gots to do. Even though sometimes I go back to mr. nice guy and never works out so yup I gotta give the ladies what they want :69: LOL :D

[OhSoSpacey]

I think Ima try to be a nice asshole guy.

[TX COLOMBIANO]

and even though you`re like that with chicks [including myself at times :rant:] you notice we come back... i don`t like to be treated like that with someone i like but then again notice how i treated that ugly dude... and this goes the same for girls when a girl gives a guy too much attention the dude takes advantage of it ... when i stop to give them attention they start to come back and then it`s different... but when i really like someone and i notice they`re just using me i say fuck it and then they start to want the attention back ... but idk bicho
One thing that makes women come back to men like that is the fact that it gives them a challenge in a way instead of having a soft sweet ass man available at all times for them.

It's just like you said, they take advantage of it and get tired of it.

I learned from others' mistakes, fuck this sweet shit.

Ain't no hoes worth it, and hoes are almost all I know....do the math.

Have your fun, don't start thinking like an RnB song and you'll be straight.

Grimey season :sarb:

[tmpninja]

:neutral:


I always finish last!


:(

[TraFFiCaNTe]

women always want what is not good for them

_end of thread_

[dmelo]

Girls always want the guy thats going to make them cry. When a dude shows hes too into a females it will go over her head and she will feel like "she got him" so SHE ends up treating him like shit and takes him for granted. Im not gon lie its vice versa with guys. YOU CANT never show a girl your into her more than she is into you, its a BIG no no and in the long run will lead u down the path of destruction...TRU STORY lol

[tmpninja]

women always want what is not good for them

_end of thread_

co-signed

[lanenadetusueno]

u sooo true

[La_PoTrA]

One thing that makes women come back to men like that is the fact that it gives them a challenge in a way instead of having a soft sweet ass man available at all times for them.

It's just like you said, they take advantage of it and get tired of it.

I learned from others' mistakes, fuck this sweet shit.

Ain't no hoes worth it, and hoes are almost all I know....do the math.

Have your fun, don't start thinking like an RnB song and you'll be straight.

Grimey season :sarb:
I don't like anyone anymore

so I have no more thoughts on this :sarb:

[capri18]

Do nice guys really finish last?
Current mood: calm

It's amazing that assholes can get girls. Actually, now that I think of it it's not that AMAZING. They are assholes at heart, but to meet girls they knavish their undying love. IT'S A CHARADE. They act nice, friendly, and they pretend that they listen to you until they get into what their after. Their prey thinks that they are in love with them, however when they realize what assholes their predators really are, they pretend like the asshole is really nice inside. The girl tries to change the asshole into a NICE GUY, but assholes will always be assholes. She gets upset and goes to the NICE GUY to complain about the ASSHOLE, but she claims to love the asshole...now this is where the THEORY begins. She does not want to look like she is easy so she won't dump the asshole right away, instead she will stay with the asshole.

GIRLS can be IDIOTS. They don't realize that the nice guy has been there all along. He never had to pretend to be the good guy to get girls because he is naturally like that. However, girls don't see it for some reason or another. They look at the nice guy as a friend, a trusted companion, to whom they can tell their sad story to about their asshole boyfriend. But the nice guy isn't THAT naive. He was trying to score with the girl he listens to all along. The problem is that since he is a nice guy he keeps listening.

Since girls get attached to things that pay attention to them, they think of the nice guy as a friend. A FRIEND. They don't say, "oh he's hot" or "u want to have his children" about the nice guy, they just want the emotional support. When they get the emotional support from the nice guy, they don't need it from the asshole. The nice guy get the shit end of the stick while the asshole gets all the action...I have been down this path for all of my post pubescent life and it has gotten me NOWHERE...at least not in the women department. Perhaps another reason why girls fall for the asshole is because assholes ignore the girl they are with. The women wonder, "Why isn't he paying attention to me?" so they explore why.

They poke and prod and get closer to the asshole. They start to get easier with each attempt to get closer. The asshole finally says, “I’ve let this beauty dangle long enough, time to boat this bass.” it is then he put on his charade and the girl feels like she has won him...even though all she won was an asshole. Once you have gone down this path as a nice guy or a "listener" you can't turn back. The girl will always go after the assholes because there are always nice guys there to listen. Once you realize that you are a "listener" you can't do anything about it...just pack up and close the shop. There is no way u will get into her pants...ever. There is and never will be a situation where the nice guy will get the girl he has a crush on.

It just doesn't work like that. The girl won't "come to her senses" and realize what an asshole her boyfriend is like in the movies...instead she will just go after another asshole, and unless you stop being a nice guy, she will never go after you. Women complain that there are no nice guys in the world. RIGHT! They are obviously not looking hard enough because there are nice guys everywhere! Girls aren't looking for nice guys...they say they are but they're not. They are looking for the perfect asshole, but there is no such thing as the perfect asshole. All in all, the nice guy gets the shaft. To all the girls out there with boyfriends that don't treat you with respect, that don't listen to you, and that don't care about you I say this; look next to you.

The guy that has been standing next to you the whole time is the guy you have been looking for. He is what u want your asshole to be like. He knows more about you than you know yourself because he has listened to it all."

what do you guys think?

not always tru

the only guy who 'd get with me is a good un

the bad uns will get played like a bitch

[1_SeXy_AsS_pApI]

girls are dumb no matter how cute you are if you a quiet one psssst u will just be ignored.

[2Strong4u]

You think the dude was born an ASSHOLE? NO....he was a "nice guy" untill a girl broke his heart, and now hes an asshole as part of a revenge/protection plot.

[2Strong4u]

btw, and a person calling himself and asshole is not an asshole, hes just plain stupid.

[roco11208]

owned .

[ChoochiSoFine]

damn cool down wasnt tryin to fire u up or nethin..n i agree. Girls can do stupid shit like that. Most of them dont know what they want..but they want what they cant have. And if the guy ignores her..she wants him even more. Its stupid, but at one point of their life or another they find out that this kinda shit is stupid and worthless. But by that point the guy that waited for her all those years might be gone. Its how things work..and SOME women are smart enough to change things while they still can!

in my eyes i changed a lot....past boyfriends assholes? YES in the acception of 1..me n him are still friends but the rest...yea assholes....now idk i feel more...cant find the word but i know what i want, and yea u can tell teh assholes from the nice guys...my asshole ex's only wanted ass...did they get it...fuck no!! lol so i laugh about it...1 ex in particular, he was sweet in the beginning but he had that wife beater potential and i dont play that shit...but when i was younger i was so wrapped up in being with sum1 that i didnt care...now idk i guess i can be somewhat of a bitch in a relationship...but if i am its for a damn good reason lol but i found 1 now and thats m baby...he treats me good so im happy...he listens, asks questions, hows my day going and all that good shyt lol so i KNOW he aint b/s :dance3:

[2Strong4u]

in my eyes i changed a lot....past boyfriends assholes? YES in the acception of 1..me n him are still friends but the rest...yea assholes....now idk i feel more...cant find the word but i know what i want, and yea u can tell teh assholes from the nice guys...my asshole ex's only wanted ass...did they get it...fuck no!! lol so i laugh about it...1 ex in particular, he was sweet in the beginning but he had that wife beater potential and i dont play that shit...but when i was younger i was so wrapped up in being with sum1 that i didnt care...now idk i guess i can be somewhat of a bitch in a relationship...but if i am its for a damn good reason lol but i found 1 now and thats m baby...he treats me good so im happy...he listens, asks questions, hows my day going and all that good shyt lol so i KNOW he aint b/s :dance3:

Well, that happens at different stages. (dating an asshole or not) But that asshole brings out the best in you(if you know what i mean) :boink:

[lll_GeneraL_lll]

If U Realize When Girls End Up a Relationship With A Punk/Jerk/Asshole Guy, Ya'll End Up Coming Back 2 Da Nice Guy...Nuff Said

[papadaca]

basicly u got to be direct n forward with these females
of what u want
trust me it will get u further then u think.

dont say u straight out wanna get it on with her

but give plenty of hints n clues
n word ur words appropriately.

[nyz_brazilian_tx]

they finish last every fuckin time.... i come to find out, girls dont want a nice guy they want a jerk... they want someone that will hurt them.... cuz when ur nice to a gurl... they fuck u over... everytime.... no exceptions

[LIFLYGUY]

100% actual factual

this lil thing been on da net 4 yrs

[Lakers!!]

btw, and a person calling himself and asshole is not an asshole, hes just plain stupid.
:D true. Well i can tell you from experience yea we nice guys do finish last.

[Hotromantic]

I agree with this..I am what you call a "nice guy in wolfs clothing"


Women abuse the nice guy..and think of it this way nice guys out there..


This is also why its sooo hard to find a GOOD GIRL..they come to you after theyve slept with all the 40,000 thugs on the street and I hate it when the nice guy takes her after she's "had her fun"...

I only go for nice girls for relationships..all there is to it...

[Versace_boy]

hotsweet_thang

So the 'assholes' put up an act at first rite? And how long do you think they put up this act for? Just curious. Three months perhaps? And then when they finally sleep with the girl, their true colors come out?


Also, have you ever took into consideration that in the beginning the relationship is hot and the feelings are fresh? Maybe the guy and the girl just get too use to each other, and start to show their true colors. This being said, they start not liking certain things about each other, and ultimately the girl calls the guy an 'asshole' and the guy calls the girl a 'bitch'

Just something to think about.

[Versace_boy]

This is also why its sooo hard to find a GOOD GIRL..they come to you after theyve slept with all the 40,000 thugs on the street and I hate it when the nice guy takes her after she's "had her fun"...



I just been through that. I WAS talking to a girl that sucked off her previous boyfriends and slept with them a whole lot. And now here's me, meeting her after she's been ran through .. i don't get the sloppy seconds, more like the sloppy fourths and fifths.. I can't picture myself ever marrying a girl like that.

Plus she gets along better with guys than girls apparently, so she had 'guy friends' that she talks to as well. I talked to her for over two months and just fought with her over jealous matters, and it was over from lack of interest on her part.

[Hotromantic]

Yeah now see I responded to your question about accepting the virgin girl etc or not.

To me if shes that much of a freak that she tells me what she did to the bfs etc..I am not for all that...

I think everyone owes it to themselves to be a judge of how loyal you think the woman will be to you.

I for one think good sex is HUGE in a good relationship..thus the more experience I gain I want a woman to at least be able to please me too....But I dont want someone that is disloyal and has a disease..

Theres a fine line..

[A_Black_Man]

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So the 'assholes' put up an act at first rite? And how long do you think they put up this act for? Just curious. Three months perhaps? And then when they finally sleep with the girl, their true colors come out?


Also, have you ever took into consideration that in the beginning the relationship is hot and the feelings are fresh? Maybe the guy and the girl just get too use to each other, and start to show their true colors. This being said, they start not liking certain things about each other, and ultimately the girl calls the guy an 'asshole' and the guy calls the girl a 'bitch'

Just something to think about.
thats the basic jist of it B..the asshole will come off as nice and sweet and try to get in with the girl..but once he has claimed his what he is after..he starts to treat her lke shit, but she believes that the guy she first met was the true guy and is stuck on him..its basically what homeboy was talkin about above..being a "wolf in a nice guys clothing".

[MaxMost]

Nice guys always finish last because no woman has any respect for a pussy. If a woman wanted to be with someone soft, and cuddly, and gentle, she'd go find another woman. Women expect to be told to shut the fuck up half the time, because they know they talk too much. If you're not man enough to put a woman in her place, she'll never respect you, and that's why nice guys constantly get shit on.

[Otorongo]

Nice guys always finish last because no woman has any respect for a pussy. If a woman wanted to be with someone soft, and cuddly, and gentle, she'd go find another woman. Women expect to be told to shut the fuck up half the time, because they know they talk too much. If you're not man enough to put a woman in her place, she'll never respect you, and that's why nice guys constantly get shit on.
There is a difference between a nice person and a push over. You can still be nice while being assertive and standing your ground. Some guys can't tell the difference, and wonder why they strike out.

[Hotromantic]

There is a difference between a nice person and a push over. You can still be nice while being assertive and standing your ground. Some guys can't tell the difference, and wonder why they strike out.


I agree.theres a difference between as David DeAngelo puts it..

A wuss..a Nice Guy, A Badboy..

I used to be the pushover...

But now..I aint...theres a fine line to cross..

I can still be the nice guy..because that is WHO I AM..but I aint a pushover..I will tell the woman no..and put her in her place when needs be..but I aint treating anyone like shit..theres a fine line..but hes right..

The ones that dont discover that fine line will be taken advantage of and miss out...

David D calls it Cocky and funny..I didnt start getting my game together until I started reading about 2 years ago.I read and read and read A LOT..about this shit..starting with David D...then going to "The Game"..and The System..and other things..now I got it all figured out.

The badboy triggers that emotional rush in the woman...I want him NOW.. She knows hes not long term..

The nice guy triggers that "Long term" thing..meaning she will keep getting what she wants NOW then come back to you LATER after shes had her fun..

Now me how do I handle this? I am the nice guy in wolfs clothing..I come off very confident..cocky..am funny..seem like I dont care about women (in reality I dont) I dont put pussy on a pedestal.. I go to clubs to have fun NOT meet women..

All this shit goes a LONG WAY... She sees me as fun..HOT, cocky,A CHALLENGE BECAUSE I DONT WORSHIP THE GROUND SHE WALKS ON AND BUYS HER DRINKS LIKE OTHER LOSERS,wants sex with me..and I am in control... She wants to control me..like I am her next project..she wants control...Dont give it to her! Make her compromise!!!

I had to unlearn a lot to learn how to be a "Sheep in Wolfs clothing"..its all an act..then the worthy women will get to see a more genuine me..but I will always keep her pushing..

It is told never give the woman totally what she wants..because once she has everything she wants SHE WILL LEAVE YOU. So you gotta always be a challenge to her or interesting in SOME WAY. Never let the woman become your #1 thing in life...

[jt05512]

fuck a nice guy!!!

[Versace_boy]

thats the basic jist of it B..the asshole will come off as nice and sweet and try to get in with the girl..but once he has claimed his what he is after..he starts to treat her lke shit, but she believes that the guy she first met was the true guy and is stuck on him..its basically what homeboy was talkin about above..being a "wolf in a nice guys clothing".


Na, that's the problem with females these days. A lot of them are hoes and don't even know it! It's not like the girl isn't after sex either, after all, girls have needs too. I think the girl should know better either way, because if a guy is only after one thing then deep down inside she should realize that and not always play the victim.. It's not like females are gullible like that anyways, so there's no excuses to be made. Only thing a man has on a woman is emotional strength, which a man can use to his advantage (play on a females emotions)

Plus, look at all these girls that date for 'fun' they have a bunch of bf's and then finally settle down when they had their 'fun'.. They date guys for all the wrong reasons and then complain or worry about being "used?" They find certain guys attractive that they know will be trouble, and then when they find themselves in trouble, they cry and complain about it lol

Also, have you ever took into consideration that in the beginning of the relationship the attraction is 'fresh?' And that just maybe the guy and the girl get too use to each other, and start to get bugged out? This being said, they start to dislike certain things about each other, and ultimately the girl calls the guy an 'asshole' and the guy calls the girl a 'bitch'

Just something to think about

[Hotromantic]

Na, that's the problem with females these days. A lot of them are hoes and don't even know it! It's not like the girl isn't after sex either, after all, girls have needs too. I think the girl should know better either way, because if a guy is only after one thing then deep down inside she should realize that and not always play the victim.. It's not like females are gullible like that anyways, so there's no excuses to be made. Only thing a man has on a woman is emotional strength, which a man can use to his advantage (play on a females emotions)

Plus, look at all these girls that date for 'fun' they have a bunch of bf's and then finally settle down when they had their 'fun'.. They date guys for all the wrong reasons and then complain or worry about being "used?" They find certain guys attractive that they know will be trouble, and then when they find themselves in trouble, they cry and complain about it lol

Also, have you ever took into consideration that in the beginning of the relationship the attraction is 'fresh?' And that just maybe the guy and the girl get too use to each other, and start to get bugged out? This being said, they start to dislike certain things about each other, and ultimately the girl calls the guy an 'asshole' and the guy calls the girl a 'bitch'

Just something to think about

Good point..but also there are plays going at hand...

You both make good points actually..because the guy can play it off and so can the girl..

Last night I was at my fave Latin Club and a group of three women GRABBED ME violently and forced me to sit down and dance with them..they were hitting on me SOOO HARD...

They thought because of how I dress and how in their eyes how attractive I look I must be a player...(bad boy) I told them I'm not...honest to God truth..but of course my looks work AGAINST ME..so I gotta fight the player stereotype because of how I look and dress..but it works to my advantage because I GET THE WOMENS ATTENTION..they want me..thus later on I can get to know them and they can see they GOT A WINNER..a man that can satisfy their every needs sexually, mentally, emotionally.

So yes the sheep in wolfs clothing is good enough to get me quite a few looks from the hot bartenders everyone is afraid to hit on and pick and dance with almost any girl that isnt dancing with someone at the clubs.

[danny_416]

off course they do...then they turn into dirt bags...its all part of the cycle! ;)

[Hotromantic]

off course they do...then they turn into dirt bags...its all part of the cycle! ;)

Good point...lol.